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Member Since: June 5, 2012
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Last Update: June 14, 2012
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My boyfriend hand a baby by someone else during the time we are together he attended all her classes, doc visit and birth i found out when the baby was 3 months (link)
Okkay, it's one thing to get over your boyfriend cheating on you, but, you need to show him how mad you are! Just act how you really feel . And, if he thinks your worth it, he'd stick around apologizing to you everyday. Even if you completely ignored him for a LONG time. Then he might be worth your time. But he needs to know what he did was wrong ! He needs to know how much he crossed the line and that it's not okay! But don't over-do it and definitely don't under -do it. And definitely don't show him anything that he might think that you need him, or are desperate. Because when guys think you need them or are desperate, they think they can get away with anything.

But. It's a huge WHOLE DIFFERENT thing If he had a kid with someone and to top that off he lied to say it was yours? Gurl , ain't nobody need or deserve someone like that . I don't care how desperate or lonely you could be or are feeling. And I don't care how cute or charming he could be or was. Guess what. He isn't anymore . He is a selfish, heartbreaking, chauvinist pig. He doesn't care about you . But lots and tons of other guys probably do and will . That pig has a child to raise, although I hope that they adopt it out or something . There is no place for a poor child in a situation like that.

So, did you get my Answer ? It's no.




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