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Two people where everyone thinks they're in love but themselves. Are we foo
There is this girl who has been a great friend of mine for about 6-7 months now. We were basically great friends from the moment we met and everyone keeps telling us that we should date, some are even suspicious that we're secretly having a relationship. Yet neither of us really feels that way, I can't be sure about her but there were times when I thought that "hmmm, maybe..." but there was never this 'little push' that makes you actually fall in love.
We all know the stories of two people where everyone knows they're in love but themselves. Those stories got me thinking...
I mean, have any of you been in this situation and what happened then?
When we are confronted with it we both react kinda awkwardly, it's never like "Ewwww.no" but more like "why does everyone think that?". She also told me that "She didn't know what she was missing" when the girl I liked said no (A couple of months ago) . But of course she was just being nice.
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I have gone through this with my best friend also. Me and him have been friends for a very long time, and so many people have asked us why we're not dating. Our reactions are about the same as the two of yours. What you really need to do is step back and think about it. Talk to her about it and see where you guys stand. If you're happy where you are, and find that you don't see eachother in that way, then just remain friends. However if you talk about it, you may find that you really do see eachotherthat way and then start dating from there. It could be like me and my friend; we love eachother, but more like a brother/sister kind of love, which is what you two might have aswell. The best advice I can really give is to seriously think about it from all the angles you can, and talk to eachother about it. And if your friends keep telling you to date and you find it becoming a little annoying, then just talk to them about it aswell and explain it to them in a way they'll understand. Hope this helped in some way! Good luck! :)
~RF
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yes, yes I KNOW what youre talking about! This is where you should think it over a LOT.
If you dont like her that way, and she's the same, dont go out. If you break up it will ruin your awesome friendship!
If you do eventually find yourself falling for her ^_^
try some obvious flirting and see what kind of reaction you get. That will help you see if you should ask her or not.
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