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What do you think about this?
Well my dear boyfriend wants to buy a vibrator for me to use when having sex with him,wtf?Out of the blue he comes up with this.What does it mean?He has a nice and huge p****,so why does he wanna get this thing?I'm not saying I don't like sex toys though,but this is a bit weird,help?
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He probably thinks it would be fun to watch you use it. Ask him if you're not sure.
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I agree with solidadvice4teens you need to talk with him to find out why. If you have ever read any of my answers to question such as yours you will know I am very big on communication as the key to a good sex life. If you do not talk to each other you will never know each others wants, desires, likes or dislikes.
His wanting you to use a vibrator during sex falls under the categories of "Wants, Desires and most likely Fantasy." Every one has sexual fantasies, men's fantasies seems to be stronger them women's. Most men what to watch two women having sex; it is probably the biggest voyeuristic turn on for men.
Your boyfriend probably, and I am guessing here, wants to watch you masturbate with the dildo. This would be a voyeuristic turn on for him. there is nothing wrong with this AS LONG AS YOU CONSENT. It becomes WRONG if you find it wrong and DO NOT CONSENT. Nothing two CONSENTING partners do while having sex in the privacy of ones bedroom is wrong. It becomes wrong when one partner is forced to do something they don't want to do.
This is why you need to TALK WITH HIM AND NOT US... He and only he can tell you why this is important to him.
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Tell that to him. Seriously! Tell him you're not a prude and aren't against toys but why does he want you to use one during intercourse? I'm sure he would tell you. It may have to do with him and certain stimulation or could be something else. Only he can tell you why he's desiring this.
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