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How did you know you were in love?
I know it's kind of personal but how did you know when you were in love? What things did you notice? Do you feel good knowing you were in love? How old were you the first time you were in love?
I am using these answers to help figure out my own feelings. Thank you!
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Hi there,
Being in love is of course different for every single person. Many confuse feelings of love and lust.
For me true love is the most amazing feeling there is.
I knew I was in love with my boyfriend after about 8months- a year. He confessed his love for me at an earlier stage When I was still trying to figure my feelings out. It took time for them to grow and develop into something more.
It's hard to describe but I would just get this over whelming feeling around him. One of pure happiness. I would a feel a closeness to him I had never felt with anyone else. I would think about him 24/7 want to share everything with him. Want to know everything about him. I could picture myself with him for the rest of my life and it felt really good.
We would sit up and talk for hours on end without getting bored or tired or running out of things to say. Part of being in love for me is being able to hold these immense deep and meaningful conversations.
The most important thing is laughter. He is the ONLY person who can make me laugh non stop. No matter how crappy I might be feeling. Same goes for smiling.
Love is when you suddenly care more about the other persons feelings then your own. I would literally do anything for my boyfriend as would he me.
Its feeling completely comfortable around someone. Lighting up every time you see them or call them or text them.
Being in love is the best feeling I have ever felt.
I was 16 when I fell in love.
Don't listen to what any body says,love has no age limits. You are NEVER too old or too young to fall in love. That's just pure nonsense. Love is an emotion a feeling and everyone is capable of falling in love. :)
Good luck and I hope I helped :)
Much <3
Jess 18/f
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Being "In Love" is a decision. Not a feeling.
You feel infatuation. Lust. Affection. And yes, you can feel love. But being "in love" is not the same thing as feeling love. You feel love for family, for friends.
Being in love is about choice. When you say "I love you" you are saying "I choose you".
Everyone feels things differently but everyone also passes the point where saying "I love you" means "I choose you" rather than "I feel love for you". When you realize that you just said "I love you" and it meant "I choose you" you will know you're "in love". It doesn't have to be a permanent choice, it's just the connotation that comes through in what you mean when you say the words to someone you're with.
Anything short of that is mostly infatuation and lust.
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When I was 20, I was in love - I'd had boyfriends before which I felt strongly about but they didn't come close to how I felt later.
I knew I was in love when he was all I could think about. I didn't see other guys in the same way any more and when I pictured my future, I could see him in it. I remember thinking to myself if I had to give my own life to save his, I'd do it.. I would have given him my world - everything I could possibly offer..
It was an amazing feeling knowing I cared for and felt so deeply for someone and the feelings being mutual. With every kiss and cuddle, always feeling that spark and such a strong connection.. and the fact we were always on the same wavelength.. It really did make days worthwhile. Just a shame for me, it didn't have the perfect ending!
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I'm 13 and I think im inlove but to many love is different like people may say at 13 it's not love or at 70 it's not love but you can be any age to be inlove. I'm inlove with my boyfriend because I think about him all the time and get butterflys around him but for you, you may not do the sane as me. Hope I helped answer your question <3
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