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I like my bestfriend
15/f
so me and this guy have known each other for a while, and have been friends for around 4 years. hes diffidently my best guy friend. so anyways every year i feel like were becoming closer and closer. and this year i kinda started to fall for him. recently, i noticed that whenever we talk, especially when i look him in the eye and talk to him, he smiles and blushes, and occasionally looks away for a moment. and when other people talk to him he doesnt do that. atleast not that i know of. no one knows i like him tho. hes really funny, we get along great. we know how to make each other laugh and i like that a lot. but sometimes i just feel like i text him too much about pointless stuff that he doesnt care about and i want to talk to him so badly but i just dont want to seem like annoying, you know?
so anyways, sometimes he can be a bit of a jerk with some of the things he says, but its lessened a lot and he is usually joking around.
but this weekend im going to his sweet 16 birthday party and im excited but i dont know what to expect.
how can i really tell if he likes me or not? its so hard to tell with guys, whether they're into you, just being nice, or flirting is just how they act, or if they're even flirting at all
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I'm in a very similar situation right now. I think your best bet is to flirt a lot and show him that you are interested. Try complimenting him and trying to talk to him even more. Smile and laugh when he talks to you. It sounds like he may like you from what you said, but then again, it's hard to tell with guys :) If you feel comfortable telling him that you like him, you could try that also (that's what I did) but if not, I would suggest flirting a lot. As for texting him a lot, I struggle with the same thing! I want to talk to him but I don't want to annoy him. I think texting him in moderation is good. You know, you can text him sometimes but I would try not to do it every day (unless he texts you first). But I'd say your chances of him liking you are pretty good- best friends seem to fall for each other a lot. Wear something cute to his party and keep flirting ;)
Good luck! Hope everything works out!
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This happens to a lot of people since you are spending a lot of time with him, you really are noticing him and are looking at him more as friends. That transition is hard whether or not knowing to be more than friends. The big thing to notice if he likes you is see if he flirts with other girls, or he is putting all his attention on you. And you can always lead him on, maybe you should compliment him and flirt a lot!
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