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I am a 17 year old girl, about to graduate high school and I need to choose a university. I live in a crazy and beautiful city and I've lived here my whole life so all of my family is here. They all are expecting me to stay close to the city. The only thing is that I don't feel safe in this city. There are so many threats, partly because there are so many creepy people in this city. being a girl, I take all precautions that I can (hiding my hair and covering myself up) I have never been in a serious situation but have been very close to many. With that, I hate this city. I never feel safe in this place because my life is always in danger. I have experienced too many situations where my life could have ended, but I'm smart and that is how Ive survived this long.
With graduation closely approaching, I figure that it might be my chance to get away from this crazy beautiful city. I have found this one place with low crime rates, small, and safe, on the other end of the country. That may seem like quite a stretch, I know; but I have fallen in love with this place, and I figure that it may be my chance to start an adventure. I thought that I could go to university there for a few years.
But of course my family is all here, and I wont be able to see them as much, and of course they may not be completely supportive of me leaving right after high school, or going across the country.
I'm simply looking for another opinion, if anyone could possibly help me out.
Sincerely,
-Not a City Girl (link)
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Everywhere there is going to be danger. But whatever college feels right to you go for it. At some point in your life you are going to have to make a change, maybe staying in the city close to your family is a good choice because if you need someone you always have family! :)
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so me and this guy have known each other for a while, and have been friends for around 4 years. hes diffidently my best guy friend. so anyways every year i feel like were becoming closer and closer. and this year i kinda started to fall for him. recently, i noticed that whenever we talk, especially when i look him in the eye and talk to him, he smiles and blushes, and occasionally looks away for a moment. and when other people talk to him he doesnt do that. atleast not that i know of. no one knows i like him tho. hes really funny, we get along great. we know how to make each other laugh and i like that a lot. but sometimes i just feel like i text him too much about pointless stuff that he doesnt care about and i want to talk to him so badly but i just dont want to seem like annoying, you know?
so anyways, sometimes he can be a bit of a jerk with some of the things he says, but its lessened a lot and he is usually joking around.
but this weekend im going to his sweet 16 birthday party and im excited but i dont know what to expect.
how can i really tell if he likes me or not? its so hard to tell with guys, whether they're into you, just being nice, or flirting is just how they act, or if they're even flirting at all (link)
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This happens to a lot of people since you are spending a lot of time with him, you really are noticing him and are looking at him more as friends. That transition is hard whether or not knowing to be more than friends. The big thing to notice if he likes you is see if he flirts with other girls, or he is putting all his attention on you. And you can always lead him on, maybe you should compliment him and flirt a lot!
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Last year I met this guy in one of my classes and he was everything i look for in a guy. We flirted alot and we went out twice. We always talked about getting together but i had surgery over the summer and he just stopped talking to me. I was mad and depressed because i liked him sooo much. I deleted him off facebook so i could forget about him but this year he is in 2 of my classes and i see him everyday. Now we barely talk and i never found out why we just stopped being close. I thought about talking to him about and ask him what happened but idk if would be awkward after...i still think i like him, any advice on whether i should pursue him or not? (link)
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I think you should try to save your relationship but really more on the level of friends, you obviously had connection, maybe you can be friends for a while and see where it goes from there but it's good to keep your options open you meet so
Many people in your life! You might find someone else!
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