|
How to get my boyfriend to kiss me? Or how should I make the first mive?
I am 13 and a female.
We have been going out for about a month and a half and we still havent kissed. we have talked about it but then i was nervous so i didnt and he said that we would do it when we saw eachother...but it never happend obviously. So can soneone help me? Should I make the first move? Oh yeah im not sure if this will help but two weeks ago he broke his femur bone or something like that. will it make my chances of getting a kiss slimmer? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
If I were you, I would just go for it. Just lean in and do it, or if you want you can ask him before. What I did for my first kiss was I said my boyfriend's name and he looked up at me, then I just gently went in and kissed him. I was VERY nervous, but it really isn't that big of a deal. If you guys have been dating for a month and a half, he likes you enough to kiss you. After you've done the first kiss, the rest won't be a big deal. So you could just lean in when the time feels right, or you could ask him about it when you're with him- you could be like "do you wanna kiss now" or something. Go for it, you'll be fine :)
Good luck!! Hope I helped!
]
You're in a relationship, kissing doesn't define it. Let it happen and it will be that much more special then when you rush it and talk about it. When the time is right it will be right ;)
]
Relax! It's something that should just unfold if you give it time naturally and in the moment. I have a feeling that he wants to badly but is afraid because he doesn't know how or something.
You're in a relationship so there's no reason why you can't go after what you want. If I were you I would either kiss him yourself when it feels right or tell him to kiss you when alone.
If that's a bit difficult and it shouldn't be at this point just have a conversation where you reiterate how important he is to you and that there's no reason to be afraid of anything at all and that you want to try it out.
I wouldn't wait on him as sometimes you have to be a bit aggressive. As far as him breaking a bone it doesn't factor in but you can use it as a joke that if he doesn't kiss you soon you'll break another bone. Maybe saying something cute to break the tension will get him to relax as I bet 100% he's just as wound up as you are about it. Trust me all 13-year-old guys are and likely his heart is jumping out of his chest. Hope it goes well for you. Lemme know how it turns out. All it comes down to is fear and both of you have it and just have to push it aside and go for it really.
]
More Questions: |