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how do i know if he likes me??
so me and this guy have known each other for a while, and have been friends for around 4 years. hes diffidently my best guy friend. so anyways every year i feel like were becoming closer and closer. and this year i kinda started to fall for him. recently, i noticed that whenever we talk, especially when i look him in the eye and talk to him, he smiles and blushes, and occasionally looks away for a moment. and when other people talk to him he doesnt do that. atleast not that i know of. no one knows i like him tho. hes really funny, we get along great. we know how to make each other laugh and i like that a lot. but sometimes i just feel like i text him too much about pointless stuff that he doesnt care about and i want to talk to him so badly but i just dont want to seem like annoying, you know?
so anyways, sometimes he can be a bit of a jerk with some of the things he says, but its lessened a lot and he is usually joking around.
but this weekend im going to his sweet 16 birthday party and im excited but i dont know what to expect.
how can i really tell if he likes me or not? its so hard to tell with guys, whether they're into you, just being nice, or flirting is just how they act, or if they're even flirting at all
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It depends on how tight your friendship is and how understanding he is. If you guys are really close and he is easy going and understanding i think you should tell you sorta like him, but if he doesnt like you its okay and you dont want it to affect your friendship. If hes immature and you know he would make a big deal out of you liking him, i suggest you keep it to yourself.
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One thing I can tell you, don't let this go to your head. You are only 15 or 16...do not ruin a friendship because of something that can end sooner than it began. Just be friends, don't think of it too much and don't make it into something it's not. If he wanted you to know he likes you...he would. Don't go down that road. Friendships are easily turned into relationships...but relationships to friendships...take my word for it, never!
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