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Should I Do This?
Im a 13 year old girl in a really confusing situation with a crush. It's a long story but I had a thought that if I told everyone in my classes that I liked him, maybe he would consider talking to me more. I don't have a full on crush becasue I like to get to know someone a little better but he seems pretty awesome. I know its pretty gutsy and I will hate myself for making me do this but I could if I really wanted to. Would it embarress him too much? He's a popular dude so he doesn't get that embarressed but still... Should I? Thanks.
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uhm little girl, this is a NO-NO. Why would you tell everybody else, why not just tell him? Doesn't that seem more direct and if you want to have a relationship and you guys have arguments what are you going to do tell everyone else first...
I would hope not.
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No this isn't a good idea. Firstly he will get embarrassed that you told everyone, and he'll feel pressured into talking to you, so everything will feel forced. This isn't the way to open communications. Also, you'll probably get teased, or people will comment if they see the two of you talking together. Rather find ways to talk to him that seem natural, like you could chat to him about mutual classes, or you could sign up for any extra curricular activities that he participates in. Telling everyone your crush is a bad idea. Good luck.
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