He wasn't my crush until this random dream I had of him. I was in front of my school picking bark off a tree stump and he joined me and said, "I can help you, you just have to keep going." That was like the highlight of the dream. Then he asked me out on a date and we went on the best date ever to this really awesome store. After that I started paying more attention to him and realized, I kinda like him! Then a week or so later, another dream of him giving me advice for a game we were playing in pe happened. The next day my friend randomly told this guy I liked him and she had no clue that I actually do. It's like everything in the universe is pushing me to him but I think he is annoyed by my friend right now. What does all of this mean? What should I do? Thanks!
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday March 26 2012, 9:02 am: Everything happens for a reason, right?
Heh. I had a very similar experience - I wasn't interested in a guy until I had a dream in which we kissed, and then all of a sudden it was like I HAD to know what it was like. Eventually I did, but that relationship ended on... uh, bad terms, to say the least.
Anyway. What d'you have to lose? Sounds like these dreams are your subconscious pushing the issue of you liking this guy into your conscious mind. Let him be annoyed by your friend - if you really like him, tell him yourself. Or, if you're not comfortable being that direct, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Invite him to do something specific, like grab some coffee with you, or something where you two can talk. "We should meet up at Starbucks this weekend. I have a huge craving for a Frappuccino!"
I'm not sure how old you are, but guys at almost any age are relieved when they don't have to make the first move. :)
Good luck!
squiggs161821 answered Monday March 26 2012, 8:47 am: if you like him go for it! youve got your whole life to live chances are your not going to marry him but if you really feel like all these signs are pointed to you and him being together then what do you have to lose?! you only live once! live it up but be responsible! (: [ squiggs161821's advice column | Ask squiggs161821 A Question ]
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