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how do i get a penis in vagina
help me!!!!!!!!!!
i had sex with my boyfriend last night
he couldnt get his penis in my vagina
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
(19) female
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Sometimes the first time doesn't work out like you would hope. It's just going to take some time to get use to the idea and trying before it actually can happen without any problems.
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Below you will find a link to a website I have given other women who are having first time sex. Which might be from the sound of your question your problem. I suggest both you and your boyfriend read the information on this site.
The problem you experienced happens a lot. Most likely your muscles clenched not allowing the boys penis to enter. Their are a number of reasons for this and you can over come this.
First you need to relax and be comfortable. This means finding a place to have sex where you won't be intruded upon or discovered and can take your time. Like everything else sex is a learned experience. In order for a penis to enter your vagina you must be lubricated or as we all say wet. If you are in the mood and properly excited by foreplay your body will lubricate by itself sufficiency for the boy to enter.
Now the boys penis size does matter but you will stretch to accommodate him. Remember what comes out of your vagina during child birth. This is why you must be relaxed so that you can be stretched to accommodate the boys penis. First time sex will always be troublesome as this is a new experience. The boy has to be patient and not try to force his way into you.
Next time you have sex or try, make sure you have a comfortable place where you can relax. Where the two of you can get to know each other and get acquainted with each others body. Let him finger you and you play with him. This is all part of foreplay and much needed to learn about each others body's before actual intercourse. In fact call this a deep make out session and have one or two of them before attempting intercourse again. This gets you use to be naked with each other and more comfortable with each others body.
Then if this is a first time;if he is large. Some K-Y jelly will help your natural lubricant and make for a better experience.
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If it's your first time having sex, he needs too finger you before he can put his penis into your vagina.
if your not a virgin and have done this multiple times then use lube.
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A lot of lubrication will help the process.
Be safe. (:
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haha. well technically you didn't have sex if it wasn't in. it was your first time im assuming. i'm sure it was hurting and thats why he couldn't get in. you can't just force it. its better do it when the time is right. make sure you have protection cause i swear to god there are more pregnant people these days. try doing things before just having sex to get yourself aroused "wet" down there. goodluck.
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