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I Am In A Confusing Situation...
Some parts of the following are kinda embarrasing so bare with me. So I am a 13 year old girl. I go through these weird two phases that are SO different! One of them is masterbation. I don't normally do it but if you averaged it, probably twice a month. The other phase is wearing diapers and watching baby shows. Nobody knows about either of these phases. And these phases come randomly. Right now I am going through both of them and it is really wierd!!! I have masterbated, made homemade diapers, and watched Baby Lonney Tunes today. Ugh, the one phaes that bothers me the most is the masterbating one. Because it is possibly a sin and I am Christian. There is nothing wrong with watching Baby Looney Tunes....
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First things first. There is no sin to masturbation. According to a recent survey I read 85% of us do so. Included in the survey was the opinion of most of today's recognized religions. Not one condemned masturbation. It is hypocritical to condemn something when they themselves are doing. If you do the math 85% is 3 out of 5 people masturbate.
Now the diaper thing; that is called a fetish. There is nothing wrong with having a fetish. This particular fetish may have an issue other than a sexual issue. If I was a doctor, which I am not, and I were to go all Freudian on you. I would say something in you wants to go back to a time when you felt safer and more loved.
This is something you need to think about. At your age if you feel this is a sexual issue that's fine. You are doing exactly what you should be doing. Exploring your sexuality. If it is not a sexual thing, if wearing a diaper and watching cartoons makes you feel safer. Then you need to talk to someone about this as it is a problem.
It may not be a big problem now but it is a manifestation of something that is bothering you. You need to talk to mom or dad about this and let them arrange for you to speak with someone you can talk freely with who will keep your confidence and help you settle your conflict or problem.
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as for the first issue. im not christian so i dont really know how big of a sin it is for yuo guy but im pretty sure its fairly common. but if you feel strongly that you shouldnt do it, like all things with religion you need to see past your desires and make sacrafices for your beleifs. it will be hard at first but soon enough itl be like you never started.
as for the diapers and loony tunes thing. theres nothing weird about watching looney tunes so dont worry. but the diapers i confused me. are you potty trained? do you wear them for fun or becasue you need them? if you actually need them to stop from wetting yourself you should see someone about that because at age 13 thats not healthy. if its just for fun im not gunna lie its a little weird but theres nothing necicarily wrong with it so i guess carry on but maybe try and find a new form of entertainment.
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Your best best is to see a counselor if you are worried about the situation.
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