How to keep my wife interested is sex during pregnancy
Question Posted Friday February 17 2012, 2:41 pm
I am 23 and my wife is 21 we have a 3 ear old child an she is pregnant again and our sex life has pretty much fallen off the map. How can I keep her interested and how do I say " keep her coming back for more". Please help I miss the feeling of her wanting me. Thank you
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? istalio answered Saturday February 18 2012, 1:04 pm: During Pregnancy as I am a father of 2, Sometimes the woman just loses her sex drive. Theres a couple things you can try, but you got to mean it, always make sure you tell her everyday that shes beautiful, or hot or sexy, whatever word you would normally use. Kiss her hello and goodbye alot, show her alot of affection and maybe she'll respond well to that. Show her you care about her and not only for sexual reasons. Sex and Physicalness is began and mustered up by niceness..for instance, your not going to go call a girl names and push her away an she miraculously wants to sleep with you that night right? well, its opposite of that, be nice, be helpful, be affectionate. It may help your situation, Goodluck Buddy -Istalio [ istalio's advice column | Ask istalio A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday February 18 2012, 11:55 am: Hey guy this is something you just have to put up with. As you found out, it passes once the child is born. For the most part it is hormonal and for another it is just plain physical.
The physical part is when the baby starts to grow and starts shoving her insides around. She is uncomfortable. It matters not what position you may use. Sex for her and many other women is just plain uncomfortable.
If your wife for whatever reason can not bring herself to accommodate your needs, do what the rest of us have done when the need arise. Go in the bathroom and let Ms. thumb and her 4 sisters take care of the problem. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. It may not be totally satisfying but it will take care of the urge.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday February 17 2012, 11:36 pm: Her wanting you will come back. I was this way with my husband when I was pregnant and he hated it and it put a hurt on our marriage. I liked massages and it turned me on. Buy her flowers or write her flirty notes. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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