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i want to to have sex. how do i get someone to have sex with me
Im nine years old and im a girl how do i get someone to have sex with me
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The legal age to consent to sex is 16, Having sex at your age is considered rape.
You are WAY to young to even be thinking of having sex. Are you ready to raise a child on your own? Seriously, Wait until you hit your mid teen years. Sex is something that should be with that special person you can see yourself with forever not some random person. WAIT
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Although your brain tells you that you really want to have sex, your body is far too young to deal with it and the emotions that are involved. It can be a very cold act without those emotions for both involved, almost rape.
So not only do you have to wait for your body to develop a bit more. your mind has to as well.
You may have read questions on these pages from girls saying they've done the sex bit, now they really want the boy friend bit, emphasis on the friend. By playing with the boys in school, you'll learn about their gangs and games, things they like and hate, all useful stuff for when they get older and find girls attractive.
Girls develop quicker than boys, while you're looking for sex at 9, boys of your age are playing football, computer games and they usually loathe girls! So these boys are not an option anyway.Anyone older than you who agreed to have sex with a 9 year-old girl would rightly be labelled as perverted.
So, rather than trying to gallop ahead of your griends and be the first to have sex, slow down and enjoy your childhood, it goes all too fast and it's hard to go backwards later on.
If possible, have lots of sleepovers with your girlfriends, go and watch boys playing games in the park and laugh at all their silliness and generally have fun.
Schoolwork will soon be getting more intense so you'll have that to think about for a while. I think 14-16 years-old is about the average age to be thinking about sex(but not necessarily HAVING it!)
I realise all this may not be what you want to hear but you have to accept it, At 9 you are too young to deal with it. Do your parents know that you're searching for a sexual partner? I'd suggest you should talk it over with them if I thought they knew about it, but I'm hoping this is an attempt to get ahead of the girls who may be bragging about going with boys and doing various things with them. This is usually just talk, especially at your age.
I really hope this helps and you're able to stay a child for a few more years yet. Let me know how you get on and keep in touch if you need a chat?
Best wishes X.
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Your not able to have sex yet.your too young.what about hobbies?books ?tag?boys have germs anyway they yuck.when u get olderthey be ok ,for now enjoy being free!(germ free)
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Honey, you are WAY too young to being even thinking about sex. Enjoy your childhood. At nine years old, you are just entering the stage of puberty and are still growing. You are not physically or mentally ready for sex yet. What happens if you get pregnant? I know that there is no way you or your parents are ready for you to have a child. Having sex at your age will make a big impact on the rest of your life. Most likely, you will sit back later in life, regretting that you made the decision to do it. Don't make a mistake that will stay with you for the rest of your life.
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