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I wanna surprise him
So me and my boyfriend have had a rocky couple of weeks and valentine's day is coming up and I wanna surprise him and let him know I really care. We've been together for about 8 months and we're pretty serious. What do guys really want for valentine's day? like i really have no idea. I wanna try to make this special. Also this is his first valentine's day with a girlfriend and he's actually pretty excited about it hah.
we're both 19 btw. thanks!
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I'm a bit of a romantic I like to do things that allow me to have special time with my girl. Not knowing where you live I can't make any specific suggestions so I will tell some of the things I have done or would do if I lived in different areas of the country.
I grew up just outside of NYC so a Romantic evening would be dinner someplace nice then a ride in a handsome cab through Central Park. These a horse drawn carriages of different types where this time of year you would cuddle under a nice warm blanket while the horseman takes you on a night tour of Central Park.
In San Fransisco it would be dinner at Fisherman's Wharf and Bay Cruise. In Seattle Dinner at the Space Needle with a table for two at the window. In Huston a nice Dinner and a boat ride through the city market canals.
Of course this all depends on how much money you have to spend. If money is an issue then a homemade dinner and cuddle time on the couch is always good. Anything my girl, who happens to be my wife now, did for me to show me I was her special guy was always appreciated. Cuddle time is always appreciated as you can never get enough cuddle time.
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Awe! Well, since things have been rocky, you guys may need some reconnection time.
Plan something intimate where you have prepared some of his favorite foods and either have a picnic in a beautiful spot or cozy up the house. Just spend the evening eating and talking and making out for sure:)
Turn off the tv, the video games and cell phone etc and just focus on each other the entire time. Wear something sweet so you look and feel sexy. This may come off to some women's libbers as too Stepfordesque, but the cold hard truth is that men love sexy, beautiful women who present them food and pay attention to them.
I am not advocating doing this every day of the year, unless that is your thing, but really sweeten it up for Valentine's. I know you are 19, but a mature, sexy evening alone to just lounge around and connect, will have amazing results. I would keep the conversation light and remind him often of why he is special to you. I am sure you will have a lot of fun. Good luck!
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Guys like video games, sports, television and food. You could get some tvalentines treats like chocolates or a cake or cupcakes, a vide game would b good and you could get heart, wrapping paper. Make sure to make him a csr though cause it makes it special. What does he like? Find that out then fine something you could find as a gift like that.
Hope I helped and Happy valentines day! <3
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