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HELP!!! My little sister is fingering herself.

Question Posted Monday January 9 2012, 1:42 pm

Hi I'm 18 years old and I have a little sister who's 10 years old. I found her fingering herself on the bed on her bed but when I look at her fingers they were covered in cum!.
I have 2 question.
Is she going to be pregnant and how do I stop her fingering herself.

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solidadvice4teens answered Monday January 9 2012, 7:13 pm:
At 18 you should have been taught that intercourse is the only way to get pregnant or a situation where semen enters a woman's vagina. It concerns me that you thought she could get pregnant through masturbation--which is what she's doing.

It doesn't have to be a sexual thing either. She could be doing it simply out of boredom or inadvertently discovering it felt good. It's nothing to worry about and doesn't mean anything bad. Unless you suspect someone molested her or showed her this than don't worry.

It's common in males about 90% do at some point and 77% of females. Any doctor will tell you it's normal and to leave her alone about it. Making a big deal and making her feel embarrassed, wrong or dirty or trying to stop and prevent it is detrimental to her.

What you should do is apologize for interrupting and tell her it's a private thing to do and make sure she's discreet so nobody else catches her at it.

There's a big chance your parents know she does it and know it's normal so it likely won't phase them any. You could mention that you caught her doing this and have no idea how to discuss it if at all. That would be your best move so that they could answer her questions and let her know it's fine and to be discreet.

Pretty much around puberty it becomes a universal thing where it may be sexually driven but at this stage has no connection or those feelings attached. She's normal, it's normal and there's no way she can harm herself. At age 10 there's also no presence of menstruation even so there's no anatomical way she could get pregnant and can't from this either.

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Xui answered Monday January 9 2012, 6:20 pm:
First, Chill out

Your sister is a normal human being who is exploring her body. Many people do this at a young age because we are curious. At 18, I would think you would know that she cannot get pregnant by self masturbation, In order to become pregnant you would need to have contact with a penis or sperm.

Now, If you are concerned about your sister CALMLY explain the precautions of sex. If you feel unable to do this in a mature manner then you could let your parents know that it may be time to have the talk with her. What she is doing is completely normal!! She isn't harming herself or anyone else so calm down.

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aturtle1 answered Monday January 9 2012, 6:13 pm:
no she wnt get pregnant and u NEED TO HAVE A SERIOUS CHAT WITH HER find out where she learnt this she might need protecting

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Razhie answered Monday January 9 2012, 5:35 pm:
She's not going to get pregnant. A woman can only become pregnant if the semen from a male enters her vagina.

Many children, boys and girls, discover masturbation when they are little, and have never been exposed to the idea that there is anything wrong with it.

The best thing you could do for your sister would be calm the hell down. She hasn't done anything wrong or evil. She needs to be told not to do that in public, that it is a private thing and something that will upset people.

She shouldn't be shamed or made embarrassed. She only needs to know that this is a private thing, like taking a bath. Unless she is showing signs of having sexual activities with other people, there is nothing wrong with her.

And you need to realize your sister is growing up. She's going to start to want a bit of privacy, and you need to learn to knock.

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