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Complicated Love Roller coaster
I am nineteen and a freshman in college, and the guy i hooked up with for five months is twenty one and a senior at my college. Basically, we were inseparable and had been hooking up both not wanting a relationship and had always communicated with eachother. After hanging out for five months, I became very attached and he decided that the best thing to do for us was to just be friends. Ever since that conversation, we have been hanging out constantly, doing way move fun things together like dinners and football games and i still sleep at his house in his bed without hooking up. I am in love with him. We have grown even closer through being friends, however I am very confused. He told me he can't be in a relationship because he is not quite over his ex who he was with for three years and he wants to graduate and have a stable job before he commits to someone. He also told me that I am one of his best friends & that he has never started a relationship with a girl out of friendship. He also said that even if he met his dream girl tomorrow that he still would have no desire to date her until he was ready in a couple years. Do you think that he is keeping me close because he wants to be with me but just isn't ready yet? Or is he just keeping me close because he wants to be friends with him?
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honestly i'd like to think he feals the same for you as you do for him but that's because i'm a hopeless romantick. still the fact he lets you sleap on his bed and not the couch or sleap on the couch and give you his bed alone gives the romantick in me hope. but when you get doun to it the brootel truth of the matter is that the only ways you'll fined out how he feals is with time or by talking to him about it.
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