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Okay here's a big question I need your help please!?
Okay, here it goes.. I have a bestfriend he's a male I'm a female we are both 15 he is amazing I can talk to him about anything and he trusts me with his life, recently he's come out of a serious relationship which obviously involved sex, and now he is really lonely, we always use to talk about it but recently it's become more personal he says he really likes me and that he wants to be with me, but I dont wanna ruin our friendship ?? I do think of him in a relationship way but he is my bestfriend I don't know what to do, plus I live 3 hours away which bugs him spot cause we use to live 10 miniutes away... Help !?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
A friendship is the best basis for a relationship. You would both obviously be happy being together. The problem right now is the distance since neither of you are old enough to drive just yet. Its not exactly a long distance relationship, but it might as well be if you have no way of actually seeing each other on a regular basis.
That being said, its always hard to stay friends with someone after a breakup. But its also extremely hard for 2 people who like each other to stay friends instead of going out, since both of you will always have that option right there in front of you.
I suggest you talk to him about how he feels about relationships, without explicitly putting the two of you going out on the table. See if hes ready to start another relationship so soon, and if he still has feelings for his ex. Also see if you two would be able to see each other often.
Who knows, things may just work out for the two of you. You never really know until you try. If you've been friends for a while, the chances that your relationship would be a great one are very high, because you both know each other well, and already have a basic level of affection and attraction for one another.
So yeah, see where hes at mentally, and see how deep the waters are before you dive in. It never hurts to talk about these things, especially when you're so close to begin with.
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