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Do you get attached to the second guy you have sex with or just the one you lost your virginity to?
If your a girl Do you still get emotionally attatched to the second person you have had sex with or is it tbat you just get attatched to the first guy you loose your virginity to
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You can get emotionally attached to anyone, even if you've not had intercourse with them.
Admittedly I'm only emotionally attached to the guy I lost my virginity to. The second and third guys I had sex with was a complete dicks to me though..
But yeah, I reckon you can be emotionally attached to the second, as it depends on your feelings for them.
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That depends on how you feel about the person. I have only ever slept with three people and I don't feel anywhere near as emotionally close with them as with my current partner.
It can be difficult to forget that first guy and there is always that bad habit of comparing experiences (usually in the mind rather than aloud as guys hate that.)
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Not every girls first time is always with the right person. If she felt pressured into it (which is sadly fairly common) she would probably end up resenting that person. But if she was with someone after her first, and she knew she was ready, she wouldn't be thinking of the guy she lost her virginity to. When a girl decides to have sex, she usually doesn't pay much attention to the guy (or guys) she's been with in the past because having sex with someone different is a new and exciting experience.
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Not every girl even gets attached to the guy they lose their virginity to. Some studies show when a woman achieves orgasm, her body releases a hormone that attaches her to the person she slept with. However, there are many flaws in this reasoning. What happens when a woman achieves orgasm while using a vibrator? Obviously, she would not become emotionally attached to the vibrator. The level of emotional intimacy involved usually places a bigger role. If a girl lost her virginity during a one night stand, she'd probably be less likely to become attached to a guy she lost her virginity to while dating for years. The same goes for your second, third, forth partner. The emotional value of the relationship plays a factor much larger than the number of partners one has had.
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