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Member Since: January 7, 2012
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Last Update: January 8, 2012
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Ive been acting wierd around this girl i like,that she thinks im wierd,i do something stupid like runaway and promise to call but never do so,i only text her but she never acknowledges them,i love her but how do i cover up for this mess,she thinks im a chicken maybe (link)
There are not age limits for who can buy condoms. If you are a teen buying condoms, don't be embarrassed, you should be proud, because you are showing that you are responsible and are conscious of the consequences of sex.


Ok so Im 12 and I currently have a wonderful boyfriend but he kinda flirts with my best friend. When Im aorund him he doesnt givve me any special attention though. He is my first boyfriend, and slow dance. Then theres this other guy who is a year older than me (13). He IM's me 24/7 he admitts to me that he kinda likes me but likes other people too. I kinda am falling for him and I dont know what to do. We were playing truth over IM the other day and he said that he reall wants to kiss me. I have never kissed anyone before but he has kissed alot of other girls. I asked him for one of my questions if he would ever kiss me while im still dating ___? and he said yes. I have something in side me that wants to kiss him but the other part of me doesnt because i already have a boyfriend. I dont know what to do because the other guy said 'It would be worth kissing you even though I might get slapped'. PLEASEE help, I dont know what to do :( (link)
If you don't feel right with the person you are with, then you shouldn't stay with them. I want to remind you that you are still so young, so if you do decide to break up with your boyfriend, think about you options before you decide to peruse anyone else. That othe boy who is older than you may not be the right one for you, so if you choose to date him, take it slow and with caution.


So, I've been having pink discharge for a couple of months now between my periods. It's light pink.
I went to the doctors and got a pap smear done which came out clear of cancer cells. She found a blood clot too, this was when I was not on my period but a couple of days after. For some reason she was a little shocked and confused but didn't say anything about the clot she found.
So, I was just wondering if any of you have had this experience before? Pink discharge between periods? And if it meant anything?
Oh, I haven't had sex so no chances of pregnancy or implantation bleeding.
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I think you should get more tests done and do some research of your own and bring it up to your doctor. If you aren't satisfied with what your doctor is telling you, go to another doctor for a second opinion.


so this is my story....
when i was 17,,i've dated this guy lets say David(he was my first)i was so deeply in love with him,that i always dreamt to marry him,,meanwhile i had this friend that i used to tell him e.th(Tom),we used to talk like the whole day in net,,anyway....David after 3years proposed and of course i said yes....we stayed 2years engaged,,one day tom came in our town,hes not from my town BTW,,,and we decided to meet,,one thing let to another and we kissed,,,:S but time after that i realized it wasn't just a kiss to me,,it was more than that,,but i couldn't bare the feeling that i cheated on David,,,,anyway i decided not to tell him,,but my feelings became bigger than i though,but i never knew what tom was thinking about me,,,so i decided not to think about him at all,,so we started our wedding plans,,,one week before the wedding Tom came and called me.he wanted to see me he said...and i was like in shock ..what the heck!!!he wasn;t in touch like 2years.. anyway i decided to see him,,,so we went this amazing place,,,so we talked,,,and we kissed again..then i knew i shouldn't marry David i was deeply strongly in love with tom,,but hedidn't even once told me that i should break up with David ,,yet i couldn't do anything,,because it was too late for that kind of decision,,because i saw all the work that his parents did,,and all the money that they spent to our wedding,,,i couldn't do it..so we get married ,,,and now its been a few month ,,,and im not happy at allll,,,and dont want to hurt Davids feeling so i always shut my mouth up...im still thinking about Tom and i dont have friends to talk to...im not that sociable,so i decided to kill myself after i heard that TOm has a girlfriend so anyone,plzz i dont want advises i need so tricks to kill myself plzzz (link)
I'm not as old as you, and haven't ever made a commitment like marriage. However, I have attempted suicide multiple times in the past. I am finally in a healthy place in life and I know that suicide is certainly not the answer to any problem; it's running away from your problems, actually. If you decide to deal with your problems now, and work to make your life better, in the future you will feel not just happy, but content and satisfied with your life and the decisions you've made. I know you don't want to hurt your husband, but being passive and not telling him what you think or feel can hurt him and you more so than you are now. I wish you luck. Please don't kill yourself, life is so short, we only have a limited time to enjoy it.



If your a girl Do you still get emotionally attatched to the second person you have had sex with or is it tbat you just get attatched to the first guy you loose your virginity to (link)
Not every girls first time is always with the right person. If she felt pressured into it (which is sadly fairly common) she would probably end up resenting that person. But if she was with someone after her first, and she knew she was ready, she wouldn't be thinking of the guy she lost her virginity to. When a girl decides to have sex, she usually doesn't pay much attention to the guy (or guys) she's been with in the past because having sex with someone different is a new and exciting experience.




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