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I miss this girl so much it hurts and depresses me.?
there was this one girl who worked at the tutor lab at my college. I used to get help from her a lot, she's the type of girl I really like. I really wanted to be her friend but I was too scared to talk to her now she's not there anymore and I am so sad, I wish I had talked to her more and really wanted to be her friend just like other people I know did. I am so miserable and mopey. Any helpful tips in making myself feel better?
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so, you had a crush on this girl, and she didn't run. She was friendly and helped you. Next time you feel a connection with someone, ask them out, don't miss your next chance. I don't know how old you are but you say you are in college, so ask her out for a coffee and get to know her better. You could ask her out to a movie, or to a lecture or concert or theatre play at your college. Don't miss your next opportunity. ask your friends that are dating how they met and where they went on their first dates and maybe that will give you some ideas. If you are too shy, ask your friends girlfriends or sister how to talk to a girl, maybe they can practice helping you to be able to talk with girls. Always say Hi to people that you meet, that shows you are open and friendly. Take little steps at a time, but taking no steps will leave you with another girl that got away.
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Try finding her on facebook,. if you know her name,. and Maybe next time ask her to hang out.. learn from this and move faster?
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The best advise I can give you is to learn from this experience. If this girl has graduated and moved on it is going to be a herculean task to try and find her. As another advisor said everything happens for a reason.
The reason here may be to send you a message not to be timid the next time you see a girl you like and want to get to know. As a life long salesman I can tell you that when someone tells you no they are not truly rejecting you; even in this concept. They are saying no for other reasons, even in this concept; one for which they do not need to explain. So do not take it personally.
As my mother use to tell me; there are plenty of fish in the sea, just keep fishing.
My advice: If you see someone you like, go up and introduce yourself and start talking to her. Being in college there are plenty of subjects to break the ice with. You may stumble the first time or two. Here again the old saying of practice makes perfect is in effect. So keep trying.
In college some people, especially girls, have rules by which they date. She may only date grad students, or students in her own major or year. In your case there may have been rules about a tutor dating a student she is tutoring. So unless you know for sure why a girl turns you down for a date never take it personally.
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The more misersble you get the more depression so don't worry about it cause eveything happens for a reason :) there are so many other chicas' out here that you can talk to...maybe she was just gone for a few days and didn't really leave? JUST WAIT...You'll find someone!
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