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how to deal with a broken friendship
a few months ago, I became really close friends with a guy who I was in band with (he's a senior and i'm a freshman). we would text everyday and sit together on bus rides. it always seemed like he was flirting with me but nothing ever really happened until one bus ride where we held hands. i started to trust him more and i ended up telling him a big secret of mine a few weeks later. he helped me through a hard time and he asked me if i liked him...i wasn't sure but i told him yes. later he told me that i shouldn't like him. i kinda covered it up but after that, we started talking less and he started hanging out with my best friend instead of me. what hurt me the most was seeing them hold hands and talk and how he stopped talking to me. looking back on it all, i do miss him but i also realized that he is really full of himself and he's kind of a jerk. despite that, i think about him all the time and it makes me really sad. what are some ways that i can get over him and our used-to-be friendship.
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I hate guys who are like that. It probably will be hard to get over him but you will eventually. It sucks because he acted like you guys were close and could possibly have more than that since you guys held hands. Try to concentrate on other things now. New friends, new boys. You will get over him or start to like him less. There will also be times when you see them together and get sad again, but it won't last long and if you try your best to forget about him, you will get over him.
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I was in the same situation as you. I would say that you make some new friends. You never know you might meet some pretty intreasting people that well get you mind of him. You said it yourself his a jerk so there is no point in being sad over him. Try concentrating on other things like school. Hope I helped Hun, let me know if you need anything else.
~Jani~
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Sounds like you miss having someone to talk too and that doesn't necessarily mean that you miss him. From the sound of it, He was already interested in someone else and didn't want to lead you on. On his behalf, That would be the right thing to do.
A few months ago was quite a while ago and I suggest you try and move on with your life instead of dwelling on something that had already happened. This guy doesn't seem to have a problem moving on and you shouldn't either. Move on and meet someone else
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