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what to do if he has a girlfriend but likes me, and I like him...


Question Posted Monday December 12 2011, 2:01 am

Hello.
My name is Armine, I`m 23.I am from Armenia.
It is my third month that I am working at an office where I have met a guy who is more than just a colleague for me....Some of my friends have noticed that he likes me too.He is texting to me nearly every day, sometimes calling,He was always saying that doesnt have a girlfriend, but recently he accepted the existance of his girlfriend, as she had sent him an open letter, which i had read...Some of our colleages had told me too about his girlfriend..I deleted him from the list of my penfriends, because I could feel the jealousy of his girlfriend who had blocked my site.But he got very angry and said that he wants to be my penfriend inspite of his girlfriends jealousy...Now I am so disappointed and dont understand why he had covered the fact of hvaing a girlfriend and why doesnt take into consideration his girlfrends point of view? And at lastdoes it worth to continue my contact with him???

I am really confused and need your advice...
Looking forward to Your answer...


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Xui answered Monday December 12 2011, 11:50 pm:
The guy is lying too you.

If a man is willing to cheat on his girlfriend and hide the relationship then why would you even want to be involved yet alone remain contact with him?

Not only would he be cheating but he doesn't even have the balls to be respectful and honest about it.

He is crappy being in a relationship then I am sure he is crappy being out of one. Meaning, You don't need his friendship. Find someone who is available and will treat you with respect that you deserve.

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Razhie answered Monday December 12 2011, 12:14 pm:
He is a liar.

There is nothing to be confused about: He lied to you and probably lies to his girlfriend too. He is not 'worth it' to keep as any kind of friend.

A man who will treat his girlfriend this poorly, will treat you poorly someday too. Don't give him the chance to disrespect you further. End contact.

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Pook answered Monday December 12 2011, 6:00 am:
He wants to have both you and his girlfriend, which is obviously not going to work. Don't contact this loser again, he's not worth it.

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