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How do I go out with this kid without my brother telling my mom?
So I know about 7 kids that like me and this one kid asked me out and I said no even though i really did want to go out with him. The reason I said no was because i have a twin brother (btw were both 12) and i didnt want him finding out and telling my mom that im dating *his friend*....so this guy is all sad that i rejected him and is SOOOOO nice and his friends r all convincing me 2 go out with him and he txts me a lot... so my question is "How do I go out with this kid without my brother telling my mom?"
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You're too young to be on this site.
Also tbh it's freaky how fast you want to grow up. Why don't you want your mum to know? Are you embarrased? If you're immature enough to not let your mum know about a serious topic then you're immature to have a boyfriend.
I'm a twin and had my first bf when I was late 14. I didn't tell my mum for a month, but when I did-it was such a relief! She supported me throughout-how do you know how your mum will react if it's never happened before?
Without being patronising-whats the point in having a boyfriend at 12 anyway? You can't go and watch romantic films yet, you're not legal yet-so whats the point? If I were you, I know it could be hard, try to wait untill you're older. Trust me, boys change in their teens and it's only when your older when you can decide who has changed for the best or worst. Don't waste away your childhood as you'll regret it :)
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You are 12 years old, that is way to young to be dating in the true sense of the word. If this is the reason you don't want mom finding out because she does not want you "dating". Then your brother is right to snitch on you.
What is the hurry to grow up? Why are the girls so boy crazy at such a young age? Have I missed the memo that said girls will be an old maid if they are not married with children by the time they are 16. That would be so 16th century.
Your not even a teenager yet. You're just starting into puberty. You and your body need time to adjust to the changes that are happening. The teenage years are a greatest time of your life and they only come once. There are so many things for you to do and accomplish before you start down the dating highway that dating will take you away from.
If mom is restricting you from dating it is not because she is being mean. She wants you to experience all of life, which will include boys but not exclusive dating. You need to learn what life is all about and that is what you will experience over the next few years. Then you can start to date.
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The only thing you can do on a practical level is threaten to leave word around school that your brother is a snitch. Where I come from, we had ways of ensuring that people kept their mouths shut, but I can't say anymore than that for liability reasons. You could also ask your friends to "have a little talk" with your brother about the virtues of not being a narc. Then go ahead and get with the guy you want to be with.
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