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I masturbate everyday but it doesn't stop my craving.
I am 13 year old male and want sex I masturbate everyday but it doesn't stop my craving. I promised myself not to lose my virginity until I am at least 18.
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I suggest getting a balloon and filling it with warm (NOT HOT) water. also, put a bit of lotion on the opening. it feels just like sex. I also suggest going to Jackinworld.com, it has techniques that will inncrease the pleasure, and decrease the craving. That's all I got, so get to it.
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Lets' start with the fact that masturbation is totally normal. Fact is according to a recent survey 85% of all adults and teenagers masturbate.
At your present age you are having to deal with the hormones, sexual and others, released as part of puberty. Masturbation is an excellent way to deal with the pent up sexual urges you are feeling. You may need to masturbate more than once a day. Again this would be normal. As long as masturbation does not become an all encompassing activity to the exclusion of all other activities there is nothing wrong with it.
Some boys your age have written wanting to know if masturbating in the morning before going to school and once or twice before going to sleep was normal. My answer to them was just what I wrote above. Just make sure you have privacy when doing so and lock you bedroom door. The last thing you want is to have mom or dad walk in while you are masturbating. There is nothing wrong with masturbating it is just embarrassing to have anyone walk in while doing so. It would be like you walking in on mom and dad while they are having sex. Nothing wrong with them having sex, just not something you should see.
As you get older your body will adjust to the hormones now in your body. The need to masturbate will diminish some. Also while remaining a virgin, as another advisor wrote there are other things you will find to do with a partner that will relieve sexual tension without having intercourse. All of this is natural for teenagers as long as you make sure not to let your sperm get near a girls vagina.
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Dude, learning how to manage one's sex drive is a part of life. So what you are feeling is normal. Don't sweat it or try to repress your need to masturbate (as long as it's in private).
As for having sex, that is a total other issue. You can still do sexual things with girls such as oral, mutual masturbation and dry humping without having penetrative sex. Of course, when you get into this realm where your sperm is going to be exiting your body you need to ensure it doesn't get close to her vagina.
So relax and just be as responsible as you can. Don't get hung up by BS religious crap. Those people are a bunch of power tripping cranks.
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Ja self-promises never work when it comes to sex a lot of the time,,, The fact is simple the cravings will not go away they will increase exponentially the next few years and than they'll slowly decrease and you will be able to control them more. Until watch what or who you might get freaky with.
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