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So this guy and I are friends...I think ill start from what happened today...
I went to his house....we first sat on the porch and then a few minutes later, he invited me inside. So we were in his kitchen talking and I was wearing a lot of bead bracelets. So he decided to take one (because we were freakishly bored), put on some music and throw it at me.. so we sat down at his kitchen table and started sliding it back and fourth over the table. We soon got bored of that so we went into his 'room' and I layed on his mattress on the floor. He just kept circling the mattress (walking around it) and kicking it. I told him I was going to grab his leg if he kicked it again...and he said "oh really??" And kicked it again so i grabbed his leg. I soon let go because he tried to pull me off the matress. Then, he lyed down next to me and put his arm around my waist. I quickly rolled over onto my side because I'm really shy...and all he did was get up and sit by me head. I told him i was going to use his leg as a pillow if he moved any closer. Of course, he did. So i layed my head on his upper thigh (no, not by his crotch...a little lower) and he started rubbing my back. I was about to fall asleep when he layed his head on my back.... he said to me "you know i can hear you breathing" all I did was laugh and roll over so I was on my side and he stood up and started poking me while walking around the mattress again. He poked my butt and then he layed down next to me so we were facing eachother. He grabbed my hand and started playing with my fingers for a little while...before he intertwined our fingers together and we were holding hands. He just smiled at me and layed his head down on the mattress making it so he was not facing me...but we were still holding hands. I layed my head on our hands and he faced me. I took my hand out of his and got on his back (I was pretending to wrestle with him) so he decided to roll over so i was sitting ontop of him. I got off just as his mother was walking down the stairs...just in time. I ran out his door, and he told me that he was going to tell his mom that he has company over. I said ok and he went and told her... he came back out, but I had to go home. We hugged and he rubbed my back when we hugged. He told me I should come back next week and i said I would. Then i left.
So do you guys think he likes me?? And if so, how can I sow him I like him too?? Thanks!! Oh, and he kept getting up and changing the music, and wen he did..I got up too and wrapped my hands around his stomache..he kept saying "ahh, what is this thing on my butt??" I was wearing a belt so I said it was my belt. Ans he kept sating he felt voilated wen I did this....do u think he was joking or just wanted me to get off of him??...so what do you guys think i should do wen I go to his house next week??
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Hay I'm looking for help I met a girl shes very nice but she doesn't want sex I don't mind that but she is also a nudes doesn't where any cloths i went to sleep there and i cant stop having a boner. Is there something i can do at least not have a boner because its embarrassing. Any help will be nice.
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I am a 12 year old boy. Yesterday I went to a Christmas party, and there was a conga line. the girl up front came back to me and had her hands on my shoulders. thats okay. but then she moved her hands to my hips. I would be allright with this, but she is a year younger than me, and it was uncomfortable. PLEASE HELP:(
dude, next time she touches you, make out with her. that'll break the ice(dont actually do that). Seriously though, tell her bf. He might get pissed but what the heck. at least he'll know she's a slut.
I am 13 year old male and want sex I masturbate everyday but it doesn't stop my craving. I promised myself not to lose my virginity until I am at least 18.
I suggest getting a balloon and filling it with warm (NOT HOT) water. also, put a bit of lotion on the opening. it feels just like sex. I also suggest going to Jackinworld.com, it has techniques that will inncrease the pleasure, and decrease the craving. That's all I got, so get to it.
I am a female, 17 years old.
I have become pretty close to this guy and we've become really good friends. We talk on an instant messenger every night and share a locker at school. I feel like he's one of the only people I can fully trust and I really like talking to him. The only problem is we have never hung out outside of school although we've been close friends for about a year now. I do believe I am starting to gain feelings for him because I think about him all the time and I get butterflies every time before I go to our locker. My question is, I don't know if he feels the same. I know I should take the risk myself and ask him but I don't want to risk making anything weird or ruining what we already have. Another point, is I'm not really physically attracted to him, so is that a reason not to try and date him? And we're seniors and we're already 1/3 of the way through the school year, so if things got serious that could be really hard. I'm sorry if this is long, or a stupid question. But i'd like help. Thank you for your time
Tell him that you like him. There is something about high school that people overlook. Its only 4 years long. you are at least a third of the way through it. so tell him.