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he says that my family problems and my personality adds on to his anxiety!
Ummm hi its me again, my boyfriend broke up with me and he says that my family problems and my personality adds on to his anxiety! I said what the hell does that mean?! He said that a month and a half into our relationship he was thinking about breaking up with me. He told his beeeesssttttt friend and my ex beessssstttt friend that he wanted nothing to do with me and i hate her and when he says things to her like that, it gives her the advantage to call me a "slut" and that im worthless! She is hitting on my exes and she says that she is devoted to her boyfriend Nick and she calls me a whore! I don't know what to do! Please I need help!!! Thnx for everything you guys are trying to do! Love you guys!!! :'(
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nasty.what are you friends with ppl like that for?have some self respect and ditch them
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Leave the guy and the friend. You don't deserf being called that. You are Gods baeuty and love. And no one can take that from you. You mait think you are al that but no you are graeter then all that. You sould just put your trust in God. He will lead the way
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only just joind this site and i saw your question.i know how you feel alot of people probley say that but im havig the same problem with family & boyfriends, the best thing for you to do i think is to stay away from the x friend because she/he crt have been much of a good friend if ther acting the way they are as for your x boyfriend i would personaly delete his number/f.b anything that tempted me to call or tx or msg him he seems realy immature and unsure of what he wants and feels about you,ive had this happend to me i would stick to your real friends and the people who love you and try your best to get through it,it seems brutal but ive been through alot and most of the time the common sense is allways the best. my spelling is not very good i appoligise for that but i hope ive helped you LF xxx
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If you were any younger or he any older I would agree with your friends. Right now you two are right on the edge of what I would say is acceptable. The people that you really have to satisfy with this age difference are your parents. They may not be as liberal in their thinking as I am being.
Platonic relationship or not people will always wonder about people who date people younger than themselves. In the case of my in-laws, my mother in-law was 5 years older than my father in law when the met Of course he was 23 and she was 28 at the time.
At your age when they look at a 20 year old man dating a 17 year old girl they immediately think child molester. In a year when your 18 and he is 21 no one will think that. To say it is all in the numbers is really what it is. At 17 people see you as a child. At 18 you are seen as an adult there in lies the difference.
My advice: Talk to your parents, really. If they are accepting of your relationship with this young man. Then it does not matter what others think or say. I did not have a daughter though I helped my sister, a single parent, raise her two daughters. When they started dating I told them that they could never get in real trouble with me as long as I met their dates. They never fail to bring their dates to meet their Uncle. I did not always care for the boys they were dating but I never objected as long as the boy understood he was answerable to me.
I believe most father feel this way about their daughters. If you bring this young man to meet you parents they will probably be okay with this.
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