Member Since: December 1, 2011
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Last Update: December 1, 2011
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18 F
So last year I dated one of my best friends for about ten months, we broke up and in my moment of weakness I hooked up with one of our mutual friends. The thing is, this really upset my ex and made things worse between us. I had a thing with my friend for about three weeks before we both decided it was for the greater good we discontinued what we had and just stayed friends. I didn't mind being his friend and him the same. He always hung out with my ex though and we kind of started to grow apart. The Last I saw him was in the middle of August right before my break up with my most recent boyfriend. His head was shaved and he told me he had joined the army. Well he's in basic training right now and I am very proud of him. He's coming home right before Christmas for a few days and I am going to attempt to see him. I made a big mistake when him and I had a thing, I fooled around with a bunch of guys when I first broke up with my ex last year It wasn't like sex, mostly just kissing and flirting among other things. Well Apparently this really upset my friend. I found this out just recently. I really want to take the time to apologize to him and such. But when I saw his picture of him in his uniform I felt so proud, and I felt like an idiot because I picked an abusive prick for a boyfriend instead of realizing what a good guy he was. I want to know if this is fixable, if not our small relationship we had, at least fixing our damaged friendship, I've never regretted something this bad, he was one of my best friends, he walked me home in a blizzard once, he took me to the mall and bought me cheesy pretzel even though he hates cheese. We played zombie games for hours. I love this boy as a friend, and my feelings are starting to resurface for him. I know I messed up with him bad. please. help. (link)
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Well firts of al. Sit down with him. Say your are sorry and just see how he stille feels after that. And then ask him how do you feel about me. I know how it sounds but it works. If he says that he just wants to be friends leave it there. He may say nothing yet. But he mait feel the same as you. Just ask him and speack your haert out.
Good Luck. ;D
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Ummm hi its me again, my boyfriend broke up with me and he says that my family problems and my personality adds on to his anxiety! I said what the hell does that mean?! He said that a month and a half into our relationship he was thinking about breaking up with me. He told his beeeesssttttt friend and my ex beessssstttt friend that he wanted nothing to do with me and i hate her and when he says things to her like that, it gives her the advantage to call me a "slut" and that im worthless! She is hitting on my exes and she says that she is devoted to her boyfriend Nick and she calls me a whore! I don't know what to do! Please I need help!!! Thnx for everything you guys are trying to do! Love you guys!!! :'( (link)
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Leave the guy and the friend. You don't deserf being called that. You are Gods baeuty and love. And no one can take that from you. You mait think you are al that but no you are graeter then all that. You sould just put your trust in God. He will lead the way
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