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Guy I used to like is coming home for Christmas.
18 F
So last year I dated one of my best friends for about ten months, we broke up and in my moment of weakness I hooked up with one of our mutual friends. The thing is, this really upset my ex and made things worse between us. I had a thing with my friend for about three weeks before we both decided it was for the greater good we discontinued what we had and just stayed friends. I didn't mind being his friend and him the same. He always hung out with my ex though and we kind of started to grow apart. The Last I saw him was in the middle of August right before my break up with my most recent boyfriend. His head was shaved and he told me he had joined the army. Well he's in basic training right now and I am very proud of him. He's coming home right before Christmas for a few days and I am going to attempt to see him. I made a big mistake when him and I had a thing, I fooled around with a bunch of guys when I first broke up with my ex last year It wasn't like sex, mostly just kissing and flirting among other things. Well Apparently this really upset my friend. I found this out just recently. I really want to take the time to apologize to him and such. But when I saw his picture of him in his uniform I felt so proud, and I felt like an idiot because I picked an abusive prick for a boyfriend instead of realizing what a good guy he was. I want to know if this is fixable, if not our small relationship we had, at least fixing our damaged friendship, I've never regretted something this bad, he was one of my best friends, he walked me home in a blizzard once, he took me to the mall and bought me cheesy pretzel even though he hates cheese. We played zombie games for hours. I love this boy as a friend, and my feelings are starting to resurface for him. I know I messed up with him bad. please. help.
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Well firts of al. Sit down with him. Say your are sorry and just see how he stille feels after that. And then ask him how do you feel about me. I know how it sounds but it works. If he says that he just wants to be friends leave it there. He may say nothing yet. But he mait feel the same as you. Just ask him and speack your haert out.
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Are you talking about the guy you dated for 10 months? Or his bestfriend??
I'm going to assume your talking about the guy you was with for 10 months. It seems that months have past since you last spoke and seen him, so maybe he isn't as angry or upset anymore. I think its fixable. It isn't something that will be forgotten but it can certainly be fixed. When he comes home, talk to him face to face. Let him know you messed up, and that you realize you was in the wrong. Let him know how you felt when you first saw his picture in his army uniform. Let him know this is the biggest mistake you have ever made. Basically, let him know everything you told us.
You need to be a 100% honest with him, NO MATTER WHAT. The worst that could happen, would be him not wanting to fix things between you too; but wouldn't you rather know for sure that he doens't want it, or always wonder what if?
I really wish you the best of luck. I love a good love story, so I hope this one has a happy ending.
If you need anything else, don't heistate to inbox me, or send me an email to xxbbyxitsxxyouxx@aol.com.
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i think for sure this is fixable....just tell the guy how you feel and that u made a mistake and show him you still have feelings for him. Please lemme know if this helped? and worked :)
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