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i thought he was my best friend..but now he won't talk to me
i became really good friends with a guy and we would text all the time. we were really close, but a few weeks ago, things started getting weird. he wouldn't talk to me, and he stopped texting me. i tried texting him once and it felt awkward. i keep waiting, thinking that he is going to try to talk again, but i'm afraid that isn't going to happen. i don't want to keep bugging him. i think i have to let him go...i just need some comfort
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You deserve a friend so much better than that! There is a positive thing to this situation: Good you found out that he wasn't such a good friend now, than years down the road.
Going from being good friends with someone to complete strangers is tough. It makes you wonder how come its so hard for them to just reply back to let you know that they aren't mad at you and you guys are still friends.
I would let him go. You know what you need to do, and all you have to do is simply, DO IT.
Your a strong person and I'm sure you can do it just fine. Delete him out of your life like he did you. When you feel like its tough going with out his friend ship, you have to ask yourself, "Do I want a PTF or a real friend?)
*PTF=Part Time Friend
You deserve fulltime friend, not just someone who is there for you when its convient for him!
Good luck!
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I am so in your situation right now... I am just telling myself, he has some other friends now. He is not worth it because he obviously was just enjoying your texting when he needs it. Forget him, youre right, he is not a true friend who you can count on when the time comes. At least you did try to contact him and "the ball is in his hands" now, he can come up with a thousand excuses but you know they are just lies if he ever replies ... You reached ut, thats enough. Just think that at least you found out what kind of a person he really is.
Its Not that bad, there will be lots of other guys and genuine friends out there... Just be your usual good self and good thinbgs will come back to you. THese kind of people will end up with NO friends with the way they treat the people who care about them, you will be better off in the long run without him.
I think you just miss him and the time you check your phone and there is nothing, you always check.... so i suggest, get into a hobby, clean up your room, help someone in a project, bake cookies or something to keep your mind off him and youll be alright before you know it!
Good luck! message me if youre missing again and want to text someone or if youre bored!
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