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perceived as an easy to get girl
Hi i'm from the philippines, i would like to ask how would i change how people perceive me? because a friend of mine told me that the impression or aura i give is that i'm an easy girl like they could bed me easily.
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Well, take the advice as a wake up call, Youre lucky we dont see you so these are all unbiased opinions.
(1) check the language you use, and the tone of your voice, is it too flirty? do you partake in meaningless conversations with guys about not so decent things? (you know what i mean)
(2) check the way you dress. Is it too revealing? is it appropriate for the occasion? does it flatter you or does it just reveal flesh? Under dressed is always better than overdressed. be more conservative, so people will like you for what you are in the inside not the outside.
(3) do not talk to strangers and be too friendly with the opposite sex, or go out with them !!
(4) sorry, but in the Philippines and some asian countries, we have to live with the stigma that girls are cheap and easy so we have to fight and let them learn that NOT ALL girls are like this and we are decent
(5) if you know you are NOT, then let your so called "friend" think what she wants... only you know the truth and who cares what they say? Let them say anything they want! true friends and God knows what you really are!
You only sleep with your husband only if youre married and NOT supposed to sleep with anyone else!! reminder!
take it easy!! remember, this life is just temporary and we have to be good and earn points to go to heaven, so whatever you do should be towards the end goal of afterlife, leave all these stuff to God... he will take care of yoU!
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Just be yourself, Who cares what other people think of you.
There will always be people who are jealous, judge mental, rude etc. Life isn't about pleasing people, It's about being who you are.
If someone doesn't want to take the time to get to know you personally, Then it's their loss. Never change who you are and never pretend to be someone your not. Let them think what they want just pay not mind to them.
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You need to ask you friend what about you makes you seem easy. You will never be able to tell about yourself, and neither can we because we cannot see or be around you.
First thing you need to do is think about how you act in public with guys. Are you all over them?
Second, how about the way you dress? People judge on the way other poeple look. Think about what type of clothes do you wear? Do you show your cleavage? Short or real tight clothing? How do you do your make up?
Your appearance is what makes people think your easy, unless you really are easy and people tell other people about sexual experiences they have had with you.
You can either realize how you act, and notice your clothing habits; and change it.
But I'd ask your friend why people look at you that way, and what does your friend think you can do to change it. Like I said none of us know what you look like or how you act; so advice isn't as easy.
Hope I helped.
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