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I don't finger myself because I am creeped out by vaginas and I would rather not touch one... Normal?
I'm 19/f and i have a pretty good sex life. I don't finger myself though is that weird or uncommon? I'm just kind of creeped out by vaginas and id rather not touch it haha does anyone else have this problem?
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Different strokes for different folks. I'm a guy and think vaginas are beautiful, but everyone has their own sensibility. Do what you're comfortable with and stop worry about the opinions of others. It's your life and you're the only one who can live it.
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I don't understand why you would be grossed out by your genitals. The fact of the matter is that it's the cleanest part of your body being self-cleansing and constantly doing so. Also, it's where babies are born from.
There's nothing dirty or wrong about touching that area nor uncommon to do so or not do so. The other posters listed the stats on that so I won't repeat them as it's redundant. However, I would ask yourself why that body part 'freaks' you out and learn to accept your body better.
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Is it normal or not to not want to masturbated? Yes it is normal, not everyone gets pleasure from self-stimulation.
What does bother me a bit is you said; I'm just kind of creeped out by vagina's." Your vagina is part of your body just as is your mouth, nose, ears and breasts. Why would your vagina creep you out? I can understand not wanting to touch another girls vagina. I would not want to touch another mans penis. But not touching or wanting to touch my own penis is something I would have a hard time avoiding, if you understand what I'm saying.
There is nothing wrong with masturbation; 85% of us do it, including married adults. Masturbation is part of foreplay although it is called mutual masturbation at that time. Most religions do not condemn masturbation including the Catholic church.
I'm not saying you have to masturbate. You can be part of the 15% that do not for whatever reason. What I am suggesting is you look into why you do not like touching your own vagina. Your vagina is part of your body. Not wanting to touch a part of your body has serious implications that need to be resolved.
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I wouldn't worry about it girl! There are PLENTY of other ways to please yourself; guys included.
See, you might find this nasty, but I don't like fingering myself either;
1. It does nothing for me.
2. I believe its weird as well.
3. Its kind of a waste of time.
So your not alone. You are perfectly normal, miss!
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I dont know if it's "uncommon" but I know your not alone because I'm right there with you. I have tried before and it just creeped me out also. I wouldn't worry about it.
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