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I am his first girlfriend and well i slept with my old boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday November 17 2011, 10:27 am

I am his first girlfriend and well i slept with my old boyfriend and i have to break up with him. How should i do this I am his first girlfriend ever and my friend says that he is gonna tell me he loves me! Oh crap!!! What should i do?????he's never even kissed me!!!! oh shit!!!!!

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VoiceofReason answered Wednesday November 23 2011, 3:58 am:
Breaking up with someone is never easy. I think you feel some guilt for cheating on your boyfriend, too. Nonetheless, it is also evident that your current relationship isn't working or you wouldn't have resorted to the old backdoor man. So be honest and tell your boyfriend the relationship isn't working for you and it would be better if you saw other people. Lying sucks for a whole raft of reasons. Therefore, just tell him what I told you and let the chips fall for where they may.

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Xui answered Friday November 18 2011, 3:03 pm:
You cheated on him, You owe it too him to be honest about it. You knew when you cheated you were doing wrong now face the consequences to your own actions.

Imagine if someone you cared about cheated on you, How would you feel? You'd be hurt wouldn't you? Be honest, At least give him that much respect.

Also next time please don't use profanity! Thanks

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AdviceMistress answered Friday November 18 2011, 9:38 am:
Be honest.
That's the best thing you can do for him right now. Being his first girlfriend you have to be honest with the mistake that you made and you have to tell him. Be respectful and apologize for what you did. Good luck!

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blr51697 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 8:28 pm:
To be honest you should of never slept with your old boyfriend. You should have been loyal to him. You should ALWAYS respect your boyfriend and trust his every word. Tell him straight forward and say like if you really want to be with him say I really want to be with you but I did something bad and and I want you to know that i will understand if you don't want to be wit him anymore but the time that we had together really meant alot. Well only if it truly did.
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