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Question Posted Thursday November 17 2011, 10:33 am

i have been in love with this very nice boy for about a year. I have dated other people because he turned me down. Then i saw him naked at bandcamp he didn't see me.He mooned me at the lake by acciedent and then he said my bikini was nice very nice. How do I proceed. He is still in love with his ex. She dosen't love him and is stringing him along.

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Xui answered Friday November 18 2011, 3:06 pm:
From the sound of this, This guy is a pervert. It's odd that he turns you down after you wanting to date him and then all the sudden once he sees you in a bikini it's the other way around. Don't ya think? If you want a guy that truly appreciates you for who you are then find someone who wants to get too know you not your body.

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gr8fruit answered Thursday November 17 2011, 10:16 pm:
Hi,
First off, don't tell him that his ex is stringing him along even if it is true - this will only push him away further. To move this friendship further you have to find a way to spend some quality time with him. Ask him to hang out, grab some drinks, or go to the beach together. Any situation where you are forced to do something together or talk is a pretty good choice. Once he agrees to hang out, it should be easier to proceed to a relationship. If he asks to hang out with you after a few times, that is a good sign. I believe he already likes you a bit since he did compliment your bikini. Just take it slow, work your way into his daily scene and soon he will realize you are better than his ex <3

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