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Should i leave my boyfriend?
I have a boyfriend, we've been going out for a year and I've been noticing he's been acting different like lets say one of his friends said something rude shit to me and he was there and he didn't say anything to him, but when someone is talking shit to him, he expects me to defend him. I always do defend him though. There was one time i didn't say anything when this guy said something insulting to him and i expected him to say something back, but no he didn't say anything O.o and he got mad at me I've also notice that he gets angry when i hang out with my brothers whom I'm very close with. I hang with him and his friends and he would pull me aside and tell me that he doesn't like a certain person in our group because he thinks he likes me or some bull shit. Then at the end of the day he is buddy buddy with him. O.o Isn't that what you call a two face? I don't know, like I don't think i should try to make this work. He pretty much went over the line when he gets mad at me for hanging with family? Think i should ditch the guy?
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To be honest, I say give him the boot.
You don't need that crap - a relationship is supposed to be loving, trusting, fun, etc.
Yours doesn't sound like many of those things..
He sounds like he could be controlling, controlling can lead to abuse - I'm not trying to say it's certainly gonna happen - it's just a warning to look out for other signs, as you've said he's started to become angry and jealous already.. what will happen next?
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Only you can be the one to decide whether or not you want to stay with him. Do you like the way he treats you? I would say he isn't acting like a great boyfriend and you either want to talk to him about changing or you want to leave him and move on. The choice is yours in the end.
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Well you're not happy. There is a huge chance that he just won't change and he's just gonna try to control everything you do. You can sit down and talk to him about it and see if he decides to change but if he doesn't, this guy is not worth it. He's especially not worth it if he's trying to take you away from your family.
I'd say leave him now or talk to him, but there probably won't be a lot of change in him, just arguing so it's your choice.
Good luck
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hello if your not happy with him well you should leave him ,it,s your life you do what makes you happy and if you feel like he,s not defending you well thats not a person you should be a girlfriend to peace and love :)
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Yes, Your boyfriend is trying to control you, He is insecure to the point where he is becoming jealous and is taking it a bit too far. Anyone who comes between you and you family is obviously someone is is selfish and controlling. When you find a partner you want to try to find someone who makes you happy, This dude sounds like to much drama and stress.
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Yes you should, anyone who already is trying to separate you from your family is trying to control you. He sounds very insecure. If he doesn't like your friends and family now, imagine how it will be if you marry this guy. I would tell him for now you just want to be friends.
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