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I can't trust my friends.
My friends are good to me but i feel like they dont like me.When i message them,they won't reply.So i just thought that they don't have credit and leave it but my heart always feel suspicious and telling that they dont like you.I sometimes hurt them but i always ask sorry if i did.None of my friends actually understand me.They think what am i doing is just to show off or pretending.Sometimes i will be sad,they dont understand the situation but think that im pretending or im too arogant.I dont know what to do???? I want care but none close to me.I couldn't find a friend who really understand me and and always be honest to me.What should i do? i always feel lonely..
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Have you brought this up to them? If they are really your "friends" they will be more or less understanding to you, and try to make an effort to show you that they really do care about you. I will tell you that sometimes when people messages others, this has happened to me and I've been guilty of doing this as well, the person isn't responding because even though they are signed on they're not really there.
If you find out that they are phony, try joining a club about something that you're interested in. When I was in school, we had a numerous amount of after school activities I really don't know what your school has to offer.
If you can't find any after school activities that you'd like to be involved in, you could volunteer in something and you might be able to meet other friends that way. Go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) for more information.
I think that it's very common that many teenagers feel like no one understands them, I felt that way too at one point in my life. So, the whole no one understands me thing is probably just a phase.
Also what are you doing that makes your friends think that you're showing off? You didn't mention that in your answer, it could possibly help us quite a bit.
I wish you luck with this!
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A good relationship comes with mutual trust and respect in each other. It sounds like you're having a hard time trusting your friends. My suggestion: Be the kind of friend you want to have yourself, and someone great will come along. Good luck to you.
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