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My baby daddy wants to be in our baby's life now and I still have feelings for him how can I tell if he wants to hook up and it's been 8 months and y he just wanna be in his life
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Has the child custody issue been officially adjudicated? No matter what deal you guys work out privately on that issue it doesn't hold any legal weight unless there has been a decree handed down my a court. His abandonment of you and the child might get you sole custody plus child support payments.
Anyway, at this point, the guy isn't ready to be a dad and he is going to come and go as the mood strikes him. In the meantime, you wouldn't be able to pursue better candidates for being a father to your kid. So allowing the guy back into your life after he cut and run isn't a good idea.
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I agree with the user below me with one thing, Men who tend to leave women during their pregnancy aren't real men and it does show just how immature they really are. It could be that the father is trying to come around and make up to the child the loss of time. As a parent, He has the right to see the child unless the child is being harmed in some sort of way. As far as you go, Know that a man who hasn't been around for you nor the child is going to be one who will take awhile to gain back your trust. You can't just magically begin to trust someone who hasn't been around to support you or the child. It's up too you but if this man is trying to get back with you I would most definitely be cautious and not go full head on into a relationship as how could you ever trust someone who bails on a child to begin with?
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I would say let your child's father be in his life for now. Understand that over time his feelings may have changed for you, so he may not feel romantically about you. However if things are meant to be they will be. For now just enjoy your child together, and what's meant to be happen will happen. Basically what I'm trying to tell you is if he wants to be with you, eventually things will fall into place and you will know.
If he does want to be with you again though ask yourself this, is he really worth your time? The guy left you when you were pregnant, that shows a sign of immaturity. There are some guys that will support and stand by their girlfriends when they're pregnant, wouldn't you rather find a guy who would do that for you?
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