AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 5 2011, 1:33 pm: Put yourself in the girlfriend's shoe. How would you feel if your boyfriend was telling some other girl that he loved her. How would it make you feel if you found out? It wouldn't feel good would it? He has a girlfriend so you need to back off and move on. And even if he was to leave his girlfriend whats not to say he won't do that to you if you're with him. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
nothinggirl answered Tuesday October 4 2011, 12:00 pm: Sadly as much as it hurts to say this he will never leave her and it's not because you aren't good enough or that she's better then it's because all men are scared. sure they never show it but they don't want to break up with someone because that would be uncomfortable for them. I mean you guys aren't married and yet he's you using you as the other women. His a coward, he doesn't have the guts to break up with his girlfriend for someone that he says he loves. Do you really want to be the other women? i mean you're much better then that. Either leave him or make him choose between you and her. [ nothinggirl's advice column | Ask nothinggirl A Question ]
thelaura answered Tuesday October 4 2011, 8:47 am: I went through something similar when I was younger, until I saw sense and stopped seeing him.
If he genuinely loved you, he would be with YOU and only YOU. He wouldn't have someone else on the side.
Think about it this way - if he has a girlfriend now and he's seeing you on the side.. let's say he breaks up with his girlfriend and goes out with you, how can you trust him, knowing he's capable of cheating and hiding it so well?
If he loved you, he wouldn't keep you waiting around and if he was a respectful gentlemen he wouldn't be fooling around with someone else, and lying. If he can cheat on his girlfriend, he can cheat on you.
karenR answered Tuesday October 4 2011, 7:09 am: Leave. If he loves you he will end the other relationship for you. If he's just stringing you along he won't. I don't see much sense in letting him hurt you, which will just hurt worse the longer you let it go on this way.
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