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is he a liar
he says daily he loves me but he has a girlfriend. Should I just leave or try to see if he will leave her?
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Well the way I see it with cheaters is no matter what people say once a cheater always a cheater look at it this way, he probably said he loved her to and now he wants to be with you down the road he is gonna be looking for the next best thing maybe in the back of your mind it sounds good to wait around till he leaves her which could be never but one day whether he loves you or not he will be leaving you for the next thing who gives him the time so do your self a favor and forget about him and never look back their is someone for you who will love you and only you
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Put yourself in the girlfriend's shoe. How would you feel if your boyfriend was telling some other girl that he loved her. How would it make you feel if you found out? It wouldn't feel good would it? He has a girlfriend so you need to back off and move on. And even if he was to leave his girlfriend whats not to say he won't do that to you if you're with him.
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Sadly as much as it hurts to say this he will never leave her and it's not because you aren't good enough or that she's better then it's because all men are scared. sure they never show it but they don't want to break up with someone because that would be uncomfortable for them. I mean you guys aren't married and yet he's you using you as the other women. His a coward, he doesn't have the guts to break up with his girlfriend for someone that he says he loves. Do you really want to be the other women? i mean you're much better then that. Either leave him or make him choose between you and her.
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I went through something similar when I was younger, until I saw sense and stopped seeing him.
If he genuinely loved you, he would be with YOU and only YOU. He wouldn't have someone else on the side.
Think about it this way - if he has a girlfriend now and he's seeing you on the side.. let's say he breaks up with his girlfriend and goes out with you, how can you trust him, knowing he's capable of cheating and hiding it so well?
End it, for your sake. You're the only one who's gonna get hurt in all this. You need to be more than his bit on the side and a back up for when his current relationship fails.
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Leave.
If he loved you, he wouldn't keep you waiting around and if he was a respectful gentlemen he wouldn't be fooling around with someone else, and lying. If he can cheat on his girlfriend, he can cheat on you.
Go find someone worth wasting time over. Not a cheater.
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Leave. If he loves you he will end the other relationship for you. If he's just stringing you along he won't. I don't see much sense in letting him hurt you, which will just hurt worse the longer you let it go on this way.
He will not leave her if he can have his cake and eat it too.
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