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What Do I DO
Im not ready for sex, but my partner is giving signals and signs that they are. Do I do it to keep them with me or do I let them know im not ready ?
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You should let them know that you are not ready. Just because they want to do it don't do it because of them. Do it when you are ready!
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You tell him you are not ready, Don't let them pressure you. If they keep on insisting then you dump then and find someone who will wait until you are ready. The worst thing you could do is give in from peer pressure, That is how you end up regretting it.
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Sex is the most intimate thing you will ever do. It should be wait until you are 100% ready, not when someone is pressuring you. Sex is only right when it is between two consenting Adults, with the operative words being Adults.
When having sex with someone of the opposite sex it is not just an intimate moment but the ultimate in violation of your body. I don't mean that in a harmful manner, but you are letting the male enter your body which is by definition a violation of your body. This should only be done if and when you are ready for this to happen.
You should not allow someone to have sex with you just because your friends say they have. Your boyfriends says, "put out for me or I'm out of here. Sex is not a contest and not something to give away to keep a boyfriend with. It is something to be cherished and to fulfill a loving relationship with.
You should also wait until you are old enough to understand and accept the consequences of a sexual relationship.
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You simply tell them you're not ready.
and if they still pressure you, you dump them. :)
It's as simple as that. If anyone doesn't respect your wishes, get shot of them.
You've got all the time in the world for sex and should only ever do it when you 100% know all the risks, when you're of legal age, when you love and trust your partner completely, when you're ready emotionally (which you obviously aren't right now) and when you've got protection.
Virginity is a wonderful thing to keep for that incredibly special someone. Not a playground boyfriend when you're in your young teens.
You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders - let's keep it that way. :)
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