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Why does my ex wanna Makeout with me?
Hey im 14 i need advice!
My ex asked me if I wanted to make out with me and he is one of my best guy friends. and i aked him why and he said that cause I didnt do it when we were going out so now i wanna. My friends tell me I should. But I find it werid thats all but he doesnt find it werid i Havent answered him yet...
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
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Your ex probably still has feelings for you. Why is he your ex? Think about the reason why you broke up. You have to decide what you're comfortable with!
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he's still attracted to you. if you want to you should do it it wont hurt anything.
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He's using you.
You shouldn't do it. He just wants to mess around. If he liked you or respected you or wanted to be with you or any of that, he'd ask to get back with you rather than to just make out. And I mean, if you didn't do it when you were going out, why do it as friends? What would that even make you guys?
There's the whole "friends with benefits" thing but... Just the fact that you find it weird shows you're not really comfortable with it, so if you go along with it, you'll just let yourself be used. You'll be confused, and on top of that, there's no telling how it could twist your relationship with him. Plus I just think you're too young to be dealing with that kind of messy, unnecessary drama (trust me, you'll have allll the time in the world ahead of you for that.)
Bottom line, don't give in to something you're not comfortable with just to please someone else.
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the question is do you want to make out? If its not something that you WANT to do I wouldn't no offense but he kind of sounds a bit shallow. It can always go bad and since he is your x i don't think it can progress any where because there had to have been a reason yall broke up in the first place right? And you may have heard this from you parents but NO JOKE kissing gets you no where but in deeper with trouble when it comes to boys. If it is something that sounds exciting to you like you'd wana do it then go for it but know what you are getting your self into and be careful because you don't wana be hurt.It can be quite complicated.
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