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How Long should a Person wait?


Question Posted Thursday September 1 2011, 2:41 pm

How long should a person wait to have sex with someone?

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adviceman49 answered Friday September 2 2011, 11:04 am:
You have asked a very personal question. What is right for me or someone else may or may not be right for you.


Back in the day, as we say down the fire station, it was felt that three dates was the minimum one should wait to make any advances which would include making out, referred to as first base. There was of course the exception to the rule with the sexually available one night stands you could pick up at a local bar.


My advice is never on a first date. From then on if it feels right then follow your feelings. I will also add that since you have not given your age you should be old enough to be having sex. Old enough meaning you are fully aware of what you are doing, understand the consequences of sexual relations and can take the proper precautions.

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Eunice101 answered Thursday September 1 2011, 7:45 pm:
In my opinion, I think you should wait at least 6 months. Because it gives you time to know the other person, but I always say to wait until marriage because that's when you really know that you found the right person. Hope this Helped :)

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Xui answered Thursday September 1 2011, 7:13 pm:
Well everyone has different opinions


I would wait at least a few months until you are comfortable and are both ready. Sex should be with someone you fully trust, love, respect and KNOW very well. It is not something you just do to get it over with this is how you end up regretting it.

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Rena-Chan answered Thursday September 1 2011, 4:27 pm:
I believe a person should wait to have intercourse until both of you are ready. There would be no sense in jumping into it right from the get go. Also, it would NOT hurt to really get to know them as well. You don't want any regrets in the future, right?

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