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Please help me get my friend back
Me and my friend were really close. We were too close but i would sometimes feel that he is not a true friend. I would do everything possible for him. He started dating a girl I never approved. I somehow managed to separate them on a bitter note. Later, I developed some differences with my friend and meanwhile by utter misfortune got close to his girlfriend...he would think we are dating so he was very upset. I also didnt bother then and unintentionally hurt him. Later, I realized that the girl is not a nice human being. she is fake and very materialistic and it was just an infatuation. I want my friend back. I feel guilty for all that he had to suffer. He doesn't talk to me at all. I tried to say sorry but everytime it ended on a sour note. But, i cant go back to him as i m scared that he would shout at me, abuse me and indulge in physical fight and might create a scene.
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You stole your bestfriends girlfriend, you gave into temptation. It's normal for him to be angry at you. If your friendship is strong enough he will forgive you. Email him, text him, call him you get my point. Anyway you have to price to him he can trust you again. It's all up to him though. Good luck and I hope this serves you as a lesson in life. Girls/guys come and go but true friends are always there for you.
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Think about this from his point of you: he starts to date a girl, but you say don't approve and split them up. Then you argue with him and start dating the girl yourself! What kind of friend does that?
All you can do is sending him a letter or email explaining how sorry you are and that you value your friendship. It's up to him whether or not to take you back. It may be too late.
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You betrayed your friend and he ended up resenting you for it. Your friend doesn't trust you, As much as you may of disapproved of the girl he was dating this is your friends choice not yours and because you came between that it cost you your friendship.
The only thing I can really tell you is to give your friend a little bit of time to cool off and try talking to him again. There may be a scene because he could be the type of guy that will never forget that his friend betrayed him. If you feel more comfortable you could try writing him a letter of apology if that would likely avoid confrontation but again if he isn't willing to read it or talk it out then you may of crossed the line a bit too far. :/
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