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My brother and my cousin sells drugs and I think my dad is scared of them


Question Posted Tuesday August 9 2011, 4:09 pm

They have been selling drugs for like 2 or 3 yrs. My parents and I don't like it and he thinks that my parents don't know about it. I want to turn them in but Im afraid my parents will get in trouble since my brother and my cousin sell drugs in our driveway and in his room. They have a lot of people that sit in our yard all day and they play loud music and they cuss and drink. My dad just had an argument with my brother about finding drugs in his room and I think my dad is afraid of getting into a fight with my brother. They have had guns and drugs in our house, my cousin punched my dad in the face before.They always have a lot of people sitting in our yard either selling drugs in their car or being really loud. No one in my house likes it. Some of these people including my cousin run in and out of our house whenever they want to. I think my dad is really scared to stand up to them cause hes been hit before. I want them all to be turned in, but my mom says if we call the cops on them everyone in the house will get arrested, including my parents, They don't do drugs or sell drugs. I just think they are scared of my brother and a lot of his friends. They are really disrespectful, they got into a fight with someone in front of our house and started pulling guns and they park their cars on the grass and my parents don't like that. My parents are scared we will get taken away cause of my brother, the police even told my aunt that our house was the drug house. If I make an anonymous to to the police about my cousin and brother will my parents get arrested too?


My brother is 21 and my cousin is 20, I think my parents are afraid to kick my brother out of the house too


When my parents tried to kick my brother out of the house one time he broke down 2 doors


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adviceman49 answered Wednesday August 10 2011, 11:24 am:
This is one of those two headed problems. Lets assume for the moment the Police are aware drugs are being sold from your home and they are just acquiring enough evidence to make an arrest. The fact that you father is tolerant of this activity could lead to his arrest as well.


On the other hand if your father and you were to go to the police and explain what is going on and ask for them to intervene. Your father will no longer be viewed as a co conspirator subject to arrest. Instead they will most likely arrange to make an arrest at a time you and your parents are not at home and out of the line of fire should your brother and cousin decide to fight with the police.


By going to the police your father gets to protect you , your mother and himself as well as protecting your home from possible forfeiture as a drug related asset. To sit home out of fear that your brother will do something to you all only means that if your brother doesn't do you harm the law will when they take action.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday August 9 2011, 8:19 pm:
Your parents will not get in trouble inless they are doing it them self. all they have to say is my son and cousin or who ever is selling durgs hey have gun they have physically harmed us I need them away from us I dont want them to even come back in this home tell them you are terrifed from them they well get arrested and you can get a restraining order.

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