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am i wrong for being kind of upset or am i just overreacting.
back in freshman year (i'm a senior now) i started to like this guy. we can call him J. anyway J found out that i liked him through someone else and he told my friend to tell me that he only thought of me as a friend. So she goes up to me and is like "i heard that J only likes you as a friend" i assumed that she overheard it somewhere so i shrugged it off. a few days ago i got curious and I asked her how did she find out and she told me that J told her himself. i ask her why didn't she tell me this before and she was like "you didn't ask" i know this is like a small issue but i'm slightly bothered that she didn't tell me he told her himself. and she didn't even think to tell me for two years and i had to ask her for it in order for her to tell me. am i wrong for feeling kind of hurt?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
The question you have to ask yourself is, would you risk your friendship with your friend over something that wasn't that big a deal in the cosmic scheme of things? Your friend may not have wanted to tell you bad news and therefore had no malice in keeping the information from you.
Also, why are you putting all of your eggs in one basket with that guy? Meanwhile, there are probably at least half a dozen guys on your campus who probably think you're perfection itself and you ignored them. Tunnel vision is never good.
So relax, just take each day as it comes and enjoy life as much as you can with what you know at the moment.
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It really wasn't her responsibility to tell you, If the guy liked you and wanted you to know don't you think he would of told you himself? Your friend probably didn't really want to come between it and that's understandable. The guy doesn't have balls
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first of all.. what kind of guy are you dealing with ebcause if he doesnt have the balls to tell him yourself that thats really low.. tell her through your friend.. thats PATHETIC.. so many better guys that then trust me.. OKAY SO! your friend is wrong is taht evben considered as friend? if I was that friend Iw ould have told you straight away not wait years (two years right?) thats ridiuclous why would she keep that from you? I personally think she should have told you and made you feel better and comfort you... no your wrong for feeling hurt.. I think you should talk to her about it because if you dont she might do this again in the future if she doestn stop , I think you should just be careful with who you choose
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No, you aren't wrong for this because she didn't tell you .
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