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is it that he just dont like my moms kids
so my step dad and mom live together ad married but wont say happily. just the other day we got in a argument and he called meh a bixxh and told meh he wants meh out his house im 16 and where am i supoze to go.. my mom said he cant put meh out but i want to go. the thing is just two years ago he had told my sister and my brother this and they moved now he tells meh. and im pretty sure hes going to tell my younger siblings this soon. the crazy part is that his dather iz 21 and she still lives there and he say i have to live when im 18 . how could i tell my mom he just dont like none of her kids and hes trying to get rid of us all
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seems to me like this man doesnt and wants to erase you and your siblings out of the picture and close it up with only having his daughter so he wants your mom him and his daughter.. thats horrible.. well I dont know why your siblings moved out... I mean hes not your biolgoical father no offence at first hes a complete stranger how long have they been married for? I think you need to talk to your mom about this in private , if shes always with him or you think hes listening like the other persons said write it in a diary or paper and give it to her and rip it up after or if its in pencil erase it all.. theres no reason if its your house.. theres no reason why you should be moving out thats wrong... dont let ihm get what he wants.. talk to your mom she will hear you and understand..
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As a mother myself my children come first before any and everything and everyone. It is her duty to protect her children and it seems to me as if she has chosen her husband over you all. Blended families are dificult at times especially when the children are older but when your mother first got into this relationship she should have been able to judge this guys character and should have been able to tell if this guy loved her children which he clearly does not or has a funny way of showing it.
I would definately talk to your mother if I were you and explain how you feel. If she doesn't make changes for the betterment of you and your other siblings then you might want to go somewhere else where you are loved and appreciated. Life is too short to be miserable and to made to feel unwanted.
Did you tell your mom when he called you a bitch? That is completely unexceptable. He is a grown man and should know better. I have a feeling that things aren't going to get much better sorry to say. If he has already forced your other siblings out and your mom is fine with that there is nothing keeping him from continuing. You're going to have to just stay strong and do the best you can. But know that you don't deserve to be treated this way. This guy is completely in the wrong. When he married your mother he was marrying into a family not just a single woman and now he wants to change things around. You were here first, you are still a minor and should be taken care of not pushed aside to make him feel good/happy whatever the case is. He is selfish and I can't fathum as a mother why your mom as allowed this to go on at all.
I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this.
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You should first talk to your mom about what he is saying and how you are feeling. If you are feeling pressured to leave you need to let your mom know. She obviously will not let you leave yet as you are only 16 yrs old. But if she does not know what is going on,. she MUST be informed.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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