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Not too sure if these bumps were herpes?
I have recently given my boyfriend head and hand for the first time (first time I have ever done both too). It was okay I guess (he seemed to of enjoyed it lol). But I'm not sure if I want to do it again. About 3 days after I gave head I got a few pimples around my mouth.. It can't of been herpes though because they looked like normal pimples and they went away after about 3-4 days. But is there a chance if it could be?
Also I am planning on losing my virginity when I am 18. (I am currently 15.) Does that seem a bit strange though? The reason is because I don't want to be a pregnant teenager. It scares me so much I don't want it to happen to me. But there are things that can stop pregnancy but sometimes it all doesn't work. I am really confused if I was too do it as a teenager I would wait until I am 16 (legal age). Could someone please help me?
Also it's annoying giving head and hand so... I am definitely not planning on doing it again any time soon.
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You are an intelligent girl with a great head on your shoulders, and I am so proud of you for making a responsible decision to wait. Why not wait until marriage since you're waiting until 18. I'm telling you that you are a comodity. I promise you any man worth having would appreciate a virgin over an experienced girl any day. Take your time and enjoy your youth. THere is nothing to be embarrased about as far as waiting for that special someone. My mother is a virgin and she is 70 years old. How can that be you ask??? She adopted both my sister and I because she is a CHristain and never married and does not want to fornicate. My 26 year old sister is also a virgin. You may be surprised at the number of pure people out there. So be proud of yourself.
As for the bumps around your mouth I think it's because of the spit that may have formed while giving oral sex. You may notice young children that drool or babies tend to have small pimples around their mouths and that is simply due to moisture sitting in the same place for a period of time. I highly doubt you have an std. Not that it is impossible but herpes is very distinct and doesn't clear up so quickly it is also very itchy and uncomfortable and very unattractive to say the least.
Please see a gynocologist soon though if you plan on continuing with any sexual activities. We all want you to be safe and live a healthy life. You are a wonderful girl and I pray that my young children will be just as responsible as you have been. Great job and keep it up!
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Just for the record cold sores are a form of The herpes virus.
Since none of us are doctors and it is not possible to make a diagnoses over the web; I would suggest you see a doctor and get tested for STDs.
At your present age you can go to any clinic and be tested without parental consent or knowledge. Whether or not those bumps where just coincidental pimples or an STD no one can tell you without testing. You need to protect yourself and get test. Once tested you will no for sure and and while you are there you can get information on how to protect yourself in the future.
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For these strange "bumps", I don't think it's herpes. They'd probably look more like cold sores or blisters as opposed to pimples. Has your boyfriend had any previous partners? If so, I recommend you go to your GP/sexual health clinic, just to be safe.
As for losing your virginity, there is nothing wrong with losing it at 18. It's your body and you're the only one to say when you're ready. I know exactly what you mean about the whole pregnancy thing; I've had a few scares and now I'm 2 months pregnant. If you decide you are ready, make sure you're fully protected. Condoms protect against pregnancy and STI's, and as well as that you can also go on the pill, or get an implant or injection... Whatever suits you. But don't let anyone persuade you to lose your virginity before you're ready, and make sure you trust the guy.(: xx
P.S. Good on you for deciding not to carry on with something you don't want to do. I have to agree, it does get boring.:L
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