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Suicide


Question Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 5:05 pm

Ok,so i know asking this probably isn't going to get me anywhere as people feel too morally obliged not to answer a question like this but i'll give it a go nonetheless. The thing is,i am considering the possibility of claiming my own life very serious as of late and would like to know what would be the most efficient way to go about it.I'm not going to try and justify my considering this but i would really appreciate an honest answer.I realise asking this puts anyone who reads this in a very awkward position and i am very sorry for that,all i need are just a few simple suggestions.

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OctoberBeat answered Thursday July 28 2011, 6:03 pm:
I suggest, you don't. It's very hard I know, I have these thoughts often. But it helps to talk. If you'd like we could. But I'm pretty sure no one is going to tell you how.

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Cupcake_Girl answered Thursday July 28 2011, 5:56 pm:
DON'T DO IT!! Plz don't. I may not know you, but I know that there are people who love you in this world somewhere that would say the same thing. When my aunt commited suicide, I was only six. She went missing for a month and then they found her body in a river. I was so hurt by it I couldn't imagine why someone would do that. Was I a bad person? Did she not love me? Did she not care about me? I still get upset about sometimes and it takes everything I have in me to pull myself together. Please, please, PLEASE do not do this. I can't imagine how people close to you would feel. Whenever you start thinking about suicide just think about your funeral. Think about the people who love you crying. You don't want that do you? Live a full life and keep yoru head up because whatever your going through, it will get better. Believe me.

~Mae<3

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dearcandore answered Thursday July 28 2011, 5:51 pm:
Best suggestion is find a therapist, counselor or doctor and tell them what you are trying to do. No one on here is going to tell you how to kill yourself. Doesn't work like that.

EDIT: don't ask the question if you don't want to hear the answers. You say "If God can't hear me, how will a therapist?" Well, go and find out.

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Lessthan3ofgod answered Thursday July 28 2011, 5:50 pm:
Suicide is definitely not the answer for anyone. You should never want to claim your life. You may have hit some rough patches in your life, but life can never be so hard that you actually consider doing such an awful thing. I have had the same thing thoughts, but I have found something in life that is keeping me here. I want to pursue my dream of the career that I love every aspect of. You need to find something or someone that will make it all worth while. Analyze the problems in your life and then go back and find a way to fix them, or break yourself away from them. You can always find a way to make yourself happier, but you have to find what is making you feel this way. Once you find the cause of your thoughts, then get rid of it and break away from it and pursue something else in life. You have potential in life, everyone does and everyone has a reason to live and they have their own person to continue walking the face of the earth. Find God if that is a belief in your judgement. Maybe go to a trusted counselor. Find someone to talk to, it is never the choice to take your life, because then you will never know what you could have had out of life. You take away all hope and faith. Think about the people that you may be hurting. Once you are gone, the people that truly cared about you and loved you are going to have a rough time coping with the fact you were so unhappy with the way you were living. Don't do this, because life has many things to offer, and you have the potential to pursue new things. Don't miss the good things life has to offer.

Make the right decision, and be happy.
xoxo

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