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My group of friends has made an outcast of one friend
well at school my friends have all fell out with my other friend and i feel sorry formy friend but the others aare my bestfriends i am not taking sides but i just want us all to be back to normal because we cnt all be together at the same time because it wouldntbe fair, what should i do??
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If this is a friend stand up for her what can your other friends do nothing if their truely good friends of yours dont be a follower thats not were you wanna be what would you want a person you thought was your friend to do if you were in their shoes
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This happened to me when I was in school: my group of friends ostracised one girl. I remained friends with her and the group (separately) until, surprise surprise, the group did the exact same thing to me a few months later. I'm glad I kept up the friendship with the other girl as we were able to join another group of nicer people.
Remember you don't have to all be friends together at the same time - it's ok to have more than one set of friends! Any issues between the group and your other friend are their problem.
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Stick to your guns and what you know is right. Continue being a friend to this girl as she has never done you wrong. Let the others do what they will and sort out their issues with her but never mind that. It's not your business nor problem. Just go on being a friend to the other person and if they don't like it who cares? Don't ditch a true friend and follow the crowd. Lead by example it will make them smarten up or move on. It'll all sort out eventually.
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