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He thinks my boobs are bigger than they are...
21 female
I'm going to try and make this as short as possible..
There is this guy. He thinks I have big boobs, but I only have B's. The reason he thinks this is because I wear the miraculous bra from Victoria's Secret that's supposed to make you look 2 cup sizes bigger.
Now I'm afraid to ever take off my bra. It's not that I'm insecure of a guy seeing me naked, it's just that he's gonna be disappointed i feel. Every time he says something about my boobs I'm like "you're crazy, there not even big" and stuff like that.
What should I do? I am way to embarrassed to be like "yeah I wear a push up bra with ALOT of padding in it" And the thing is he's not experienced when it comes to being physical with a girl so I'm thinking maybe he would just be happy to see me topless but I don't know. What do you think I should do??
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If he really wants to be with you he will like you the way you are. Dont be embarrassed God made you perfect the way you are so yeah say it just like you have it up there.. there is no reason to be ashamed and If he really likes you and cares for you his feelings about you shouldnt change when he realizes that your chest is not as big as they appear :)
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The guy sounds like a boob himself if you want an honest opinion. If all he cares about is your physical stature and bust size than there's a problem. Also, start loving yourself for who you are and don't be embarrassed of your body. It's not something you can control.
If he doesn't like them than tough on him. Find someone who likes you inside and out and keep him. if I were you I would work and worry more about your view of your body than anyone else's and learn to be confident enough to throw that thing away and not wear it. He should be happy to be with you and supportive and if bra size which you cannot choose nor control is a sticking point with him tell him where the door is and to use it. Guys like that were never genuinely into you in the first place.
He shouldn't even be seeing your body if he has adopted and seems to hold to this immature view of what you should look like. It seems that it's more of an issue with him than you. Don't worry about disappointing this guy. He sounds like he's a bit of a big boob himself ;) That may sound harsh but that's an honest assessment.
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well, if you want to be intimate with the guy, then you have no choice but to reveal yourself. i think the least embarrasing way to let him know would be to say it next time he comments about your breast size, something like "sweetie, do you even KNOW what a push-up bra is? i have B cups. you know, like fist-size" or something that YOU would be likely to say in an off-handed, casual way. don't be nervous about it - the guy needs to learn a lesson, anyway, that he shouldn't pay so much attention to a girl's boobs and that clothed boobs and naked boobs are two very different things. and naked boobs are more fun no matter what size they are ;)
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If this guy isn't willing to appreciate you for who you are then he isn't worth your time period. The fact is; He is a guy. Guys like boobs no matter what size they are and if he makes a big deal out of a bra with extra padding in it then obviously he is a bit immature to be in a relationship. You are an adult and assuming he is one as well then he should act like one. Someone who loves you for who you truly are isn't going to give two flying shits how big or small your breast are, They are going to love every single inch of you. If he acts like an ass, Then there you go.....He showed his true colors and is too immature for you.
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