|
humorist-workshop
My sister said....
So me and my sister were fighting as I wall saying once a brat always a brat for you and she said I'm never gonna get married bc she and I and my whole family knows deeep down inside that I'm sorta fat and awkward but I took it to heart so I left and cried I'm kinda depressed bc I'm never happy and I lost my bestfriend so I have noone I could trust I spend some of my days crying in my room bc I don't have a bf andi was close to having one but he was just a player but he is the only one who made Me happy and we didn't even kiss but he seems like he never has a gf he always flirting I'm 15 f my mean sister17 and the guy I will always think about 16
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
Gee. Weight can always be. snaps from a sister? Not as easily. Trust me, life moves on and weight and looks can't hold you down. I have learned that guys don't like girls for looks as much now. They fall for girls who like themselves. So smile and do not be depressed. I feel you :). R
]
Your sister is your sister, Siblings say mean things to each other and sure it is hurtful but does she really mean it? No.
Reality is, Your sister is just being a typical bitchy teenager. You are young, Even if you don't have a boyfriend now you will eventually get one I promise you that. I didn't end up dating until I was 17 years old and even at that I don't regret it one bit. The point is, Things come in time and you have to be patient. Marriage is something that comes later in life there is no need to even be thinking about that at your age. I'm not saying you are but the point I'm trying to make is there is no need to get all depressed about it. If this guy you like is a player then good for you for not dating him because players don't deserve someone who is real and serious. I know you feel right now that he is your true love but you will meet other people I promise you that too.
]
Hey
You know your sister is not supposed to be judging you, she should be like a big sister comfort you and give you really good advise but she is not.
I say don't worry about her, stop crying and drowing yourself in self pity. Have comfidence in yourself. Trust yourself, re-build your self-eesteem. Your bestfriend left you,so what. Go out and make new friends, you are still young and have a lot to offer the world.
You are beautiful, don't care what others think about you, weight does not matter, beauty comes from inside. As for the bf, take it easy you will find a really sweet guy.
So good luck, go out there and make your mark in the world. Remember don't let your mean sister put you down!
Please do keep me updated.
]
More Questions: |